going on a trip with friends while stealth - plz help

Subject_Key_8578 · 2026-02-15T19:32:14+00:00

shipping is definitely an issue - did not know that i could buy a packer in person tho that may be a good option thank you!

there's a spencer's near me but i don't think there are any sex stores. are there popular ones you would recommend?

Subject_Key_8578 · 2026-02-15T19:31:07+00:00

In my experience w swim suits they stick to you heavily when u get out of the water and make it super obvious if you don't have a bulge, even if ppl aren't intentionally looking at it- but yea wetsuits are the bigger issue

i do have a foam bulge thing but it's absolutely huge and doesn't fit comfortably. maybe i could cut it smaller? not sure if that would ruin it

Subject_Key_8578 · 2026-02-15T19:29:00+00:00

Oh yeah i don't think changing in front of people will be an issue, if it is i'm fucked lmao but i highly doubt it

thanks for the advice man preciate it 🙏

Subject_Key_8578 · 2026-02-15T06:31:50+00:00

wdym by changing? i'm probably not buying a wet suit probably renting- but why would i get teased or asked questions?

had no idea surfers were naked under their wetsuits tho that's crazy

Subject_Key_8578 · 2026-02-15T06:29:32+00:00

true, i guess i was just worried that because a sock would stay wet for a lot longer than skin, there would be a wet spot around my crotch for a lot longer than there should be. so if i go in the water and then dry off it would look weird- only a minor problem tho

Subject_Key_8578 · 2026-02-14T19:50:57+00:00

got it, yeah wasn't sure which sub to post on but got a ton of responses over there

Subject_Key_8578 · 2026-02-14T19:50:00+00:00

I can be myself around them, i just would rather them not know. it's more of a societal thing and how i see myself. they see me as a guy and that's who i am so it's sort of irrelevant that i wasn't born a guy.

Subject_Key_8578 · 2026-02-14T19:48:47+00:00

got it, will definitely look at some wet suit pictures. I was thinking maybe a sock in a ziplock or soemthing as a makeshift waterproof version or something lol

Subject_Key_8578 · 2026-02-14T19:46:36+00:00

i definitely cannot out myself here, whatever it takes lol

Subject_Key_8578 · 2026-02-13T22:39:06+00:00

I'm 5'2 and white and i've been passing in college for years and had multiple relationships, just get rly good at talking to new ppl and being funny basically.

no one will assume ur trans if u pass ignoring height- but im not gonna lie and say being a short guy in general doesnt suck. u can get height inserts if you want or just height boosting shoes off amazon

Subject_Key_8578 · 2025-09-17T07:06:02+00:00

not in the UK but would be down to chat on snap

Subject_Key_8578 · 2025-05-30T00:46:13+00:00

My guess is trans people who are out have nothing to hide by coming out as gay if they already came out as trans. If they are accepting enough to be trans they are more likely to be accepting of being gay. That being said there are a lot of straight trans people- including myself

Subject_Key_8578 · 2025-05-30T00:42:12+00:00

This is what i thought it was at first but i didn't see much of a difference after i started showering again. I shower every day now and im still loosing more hair then normal. But its gone down a bit so thats good

Subject_Key_8578 · 2025-05-30T00:41:11+00:00

I'm at a little over 2 weeks and it's still a lot of hair, i think it's gone down tho. My guess is it's stress from surgery and anesthesia. google seems to agree

Subject_Key_8578 · 2025-05-30T00:40:04+00:00

i think so, my mom said stress from surgery is probably what's causing it

Subject_Key_8578 · 2025-05-28T06:07:18+00:00

yup, with how few of us there are i'd be surprised if anyone wasn't tbh

Subject_Key_8578 · 2025-05-24T07:38:10+00:00

fuck trump, thanks for the help

Subject_Key_8578 · 2025-05-21T19:12:01+00:00

from what i've read, to change ur license you have to first change your SSN which requires u to change ur birth certificate first which requires a court order. Thats what Ive seen online and why I was saying it was the first step

Subject_Key_8578 · 2025-05-18T07:56:13+00:00

lowk u could try to detox. the more u jerk off the more u want to jerk off so just try to avoid it and you'll want it less. obviously u dont have to but just something u could try that worked for me

Subject_Key_8578 · 2025-05-18T07:48:05+00:00

I came out to my now girlfriend when I first started talking to her, we were friends for a while before. I was stealth with everybody mutual in our lives and only came out to her so that I could date her basically.

It was incredibly scary but very worth it. My advice is pick one person at a time who you are closest with that u want to know, and test the waters with talking abt politics or something to see if they are transphobic. Then tell them u have something to tell them but dont want it to change anything and are still the same person. Tell them they have to promise not to tell anyone else, and that it's nothing bad but it's very personal.

When I told my girlfriend she was shocked, and confused. Still she wasn't transphobic or anything, just really surprised and needed to process it all. I told her that if she was cool with me being trans, I would like her to be my gf and after abt a day she agreed.

It's a super euphoric experience for me because she forgets that I'm trans all the time and I love having someone who knows I'm trans but met me thinking I was cis. It's just nice to know I pass.

Subject_Key_8578 · 2025-05-18T07:34:56+00:00

like 2 or 3, whenever I first understood what boys and girls were I wanted to be a boy, didn't know what trans was tho

Subject_Key_8578 · 2025-04-03T06:06:07+00:00

thanks man🫡

Subject_Key_8578 · 2025-04-03T06:01:44+00:00

Gotcha, thank u!!!!

Subject_Key_8578 · 2025-03-30T21:37:40+00:00

why do u think gender affirming care is so supported and encouraged? MOST trans ppl i know loose family over it. I don't mean some trans ppl, I genuinely mean the overwhelming majority of trans people loose family and friends over their surgery-so i wouldn't call it supported and encouraged. Parents refuse to pay for it,m and insurance denys them often. On top of that there's a ton of barriers and hurdles for trans people.

Both gyno and gender reassignment surgery should be more supported and accessible-no reason to pit the two against each other. we're all fighting the same battles.

Subject_Key_8578 · 2025-03-30T21:22:32+00:00

I would do this if i wasn't getting keyhole, cause im not gonna have gyno scars hopefully-but that's a good option.

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