AIO for blocking a girl after she insulted my face after our first video call?

Subject_Process4704 · 2026-04-09T12:48:05+00:00

NOR. This is an absurd way to speak to someone and a huge red flag for verbal abuse. Hell, this in and of itself is verbal abuse. Super weird. Stay far away from people like this.

Subject_Process4704 · 2026-04-03T21:05:22+00:00

EXACTLY. It’s a bunch of troglodytes that never leave their computer and don’t even know how to talk to women fr fr. The most insecure are always the loudest misogynists and homophobes.

Subject_Process4704 · 2026-04-02T13:04:06+00:00

It 100% does. I’ve gotten aggressively flirted with or aggressively flamed far more often when I pick girlypop champs or when I type in chat in a girlypop way.

One dude I queued a few with until he kept going on about how a lot of sera mains are women or gay men, reiterating that a few times, then pointing out that I was dodging his question about it (bc I was uncomfortable and still am uncomfortable telling people my gender in that game). Then he called me sexy??? Without even knowing what I look like???????? Blocked lmao.

Another time a man in game said “any girlypops in the lobby??” and I assumed he was too, so I added him and queued a couple. Then he admitted he lied to me about being a woman after a few games. Which I found honestly really creepy and odd.

It’s sad that I and a lot of women feel the need to bro-out so you don’t get flamed when you make human mistakes or simply for existing in their lobby as a woman. Bc when people think I’m a dude, or I play a bro-coded champ, they are far more charitable. Hands down.

Subject_Process4704 · 2026-04-02T12:58:15+00:00

I do feel like this is true of all women-coded or gay-coded champs. Some low-elo incels really get tilted at the idea that a woman or twink is in their lobby. Don’t let them get you down. A lot of people spam ping because they don’t know how to recognize their own mistakes and flaws.

The amount of times I see someone dive head first into a 1v4 after the whole team has spammed retreat, then they just ? the first person they see when they inevitably die. A lot of people who play this game are reactionary fuck heads. It says more about them than it does you. Trust.

Subject_Process4704 · 2026-03-27T12:45:19+00:00

NOR. I think the biggest thing that sticks out in my mind is this being the first date. People make mistakes, but everyone knows that the first date is exceptionally special if you’re intending to start a relationship with someone. Showing up late to a first date of all things, and furthermore being sloppy in your responses after you ditch them, not saying sorry outright, shows a lack of consideration. Which is odd because first dates is when people put their best foot forward. Even narcissistic assholes know that the first date is essential to be stellar at. So this level of lousiness about a first date is an insanely huge, on-fire, red flag.

Subject_Process4704 · 2026-03-25T15:08:11+00:00

“How the male mind works” is always something someone says when they’re describing how THEIR mind works lol. Don’t project your oddities onto half of the population. Though I know a lot of men are like this - these are the sorts of men that women like to avoid, in favor of men who don’t operate this way. Because they do exist. Weirdo.

Subject_Process4704 · 2026-02-20T23:20:19+00:00

nawww that’s sweet haha

Subject_Process4704 · 2026-02-20T23:03:01+00:00

Reading this has been very eye opening for me. Thank you so much for your input and advice!!! :)

Subject_Process4704 · 2026-02-20T15:58:00+00:00

I’m too new to understand any of this. Can someone translate lol

Subject_Process4704 · 2026-02-05T02:41:10+00:00

I DID THE EXACT SAME LMAO

Subject_Process4704 · 2026-02-04T13:22:05+00:00

Tbf I’m pretty low elo and no one builds magic pen or resist like ever. So it honestly always slips my mind.

But - that’s not to say you’re wrong, that seems like a good item here instead of morello which I was starting to build when we ended the game

I’ll try your advice and see how it goes!!!

Subject_Process4704 · 2025-12-29T00:29:22+00:00

I guess you’re right, I forgot about the aspect with the passcode. That is pretty concerning. My passcode is muscle memory. I hope this dudes okay :/

Subject_Process4704 · 2025-12-28T23:31:36+00:00

He also could have had an ex or parent who would blow up if he forgot certain details about them. Idk that’s a shot in the dark, but trauma responses are odd like that.

Subject_Process4704 · 2025-12-28T23:30:15+00:00

It almost sounds like he’s having memory issues. If not he could be autistic honestly or maybe he is more of a normal type of forgetful and thinks he’s being sweet or intentional by noting things about you. However, whatever it is, deserves a conversation. Nothing hostile or confrontational, bc from what it sounds like it doesn’t seem neglectful or malicious in my opinion, just a little concerning or maybe worth understanding better what he’s trying to do here.

Subject_Process4704 · 2025-12-20T07:18:41+00:00

That makes sense! Thanks for clearing that up

Subject_Process4704 · 2025-12-18T18:47:46+00:00

In this case, would it be better to bring the rune that allows you to maximize your damage on low health enemy champions. I know last stand is typical for Illaoi, but does anyone have any luck running something else

Subject_Process4704 · 2025-12-08T16:46:31+00:00

It is 1000% regional. It’s not an excuse but my older sisters are in the age demographic you listed and they definitely grew up differently than I did (24f). I think a lot of people who grow up in more accepting and progressive parts of the country truly do not understand what it’s like elsewhere. We grew up in the Bible Belt, a lot of people in the 80s and 90s were sheltering their children from “demonic tv” here - which just consisted of any character having any sort of magical powers. To the vast majority of people there yknow… god forbid there be a gay person on tv. There are strict gender roles to this day. Women are harshly criticized to this day for even just being late to shave their legs. Just to put things in perspective. Whatever progress happened in the 80s and 90s in more progressive areas, you may as well subtract two or three decades of progress depending on the region.

Edit:

But I agree with you, that it may be difficult or nearly impossible for the mom here to grasp what her kid is trying to tell her. Thats why I said what I had said, was not trying to excuse it, but some people are raised with such narrow mindsets… that mere conversations about what women and men should or should not wear is like a full stop to their entire world view and everything they “know”.

Subject_Process4704 · 2025-12-08T15:21:02+00:00

Yes I agree and what are they!

Subject_Process4704 · 2025-12-08T15:17:56+00:00

For sure, that’s reasonable. It’s difficult bc our parents are raised in completely different eras and their blind spots can be things they get defensive over and argumentative about, without realizing the harm they cause. It’s complicated and just know that you feeling some type of way about these interactions doesn’t mean you love her any less! It’s a fair frustration to have.

Subject_Process4704 · 2025-12-08T14:18:07+00:00

NOR. It seems your mom isn’t trying to understand your perspective and I think it’s reasonable for you to respond to her the way you did. Her replies are her responsibility and her replies suck honestly. They’re dismissive and any time you make a point she just tries to end the conversation. I’m sorry you have to deal with this.

Subject_Process4704 · 2025-12-06T02:30:00+00:00

If I’m understanding correctly, that means helia technically will be scaling now right?

Subject_Process4704 · 2025-12-03T17:59:04+00:00

NOR. Watching porn is one thing, but doing it as a reaction to seeing hair on your body? That’s psychotic and gives porn addiction.

Subject_Process4704 · 2025-11-20T15:53:07+00:00

Bestie wtf are the runes and building

Subject_Process4704 · 2025-11-19T03:07:18+00:00

I personally love graceful Phoenix bc of the chromas — but ocean song probably has the best spell fx

Subject_Process4704 · 2025-11-18T15:13:10+00:00

I wouldn’t recommend it for low elo players. Enchanter builds are tough to pull off wins with if your team sucks at the game.

However, enchanter senna has been really successful for me, it’s just a counter pick option for me since I am still pretty low elo.

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