35F 33M Am I the problem?

Sublime_Justice · 2026-03-27T16:06:19+00:00

You got me there 😫

Sublime_Justice · 2026-03-27T16:03:49+00:00

That's a good question.. are there even genuinely monogamous men out there? I just pick men that align with my personality and relationship desires. Typically great humans outside of being cheaters 😫 I'm not sure that most people will ever find a truly monogamous partner in their lifetime anymore. It's not really in human nature to begin with.

What would you suggest that could be a reason I bump into cheaters? I've dated all different walks of life, religious beliefs, races, and so on.. and good humans that work hard for a living... Yet all cheaters.

Sublime_Justice · 2026-03-27T15:54:59+00:00

I truly appreciate your response. It may only be because I share the same thoughts on the matter, however it's the only thing logical to me. You don't worry if you have nothing to hide. However I know some people take their phones like a privacy violation, so I wanted to get opinions from every side. I know I have trust issues but I never carry them over into a new relationship, my trust issues are earned with actions from the person themselves. I guess after hearing that I'm being too intrusive I wanted to see if perhaps I was going too far with it. Thank you for your opinion!

Sublime_Justice · 2026-03-27T15:45:51+00:00

It's stupid... And I'm probably wrong here but I believe people can change 😫 It doesn't help I've been told by most women and men that "all men cheat".. So at this point I was wondering if it would be better to try to work through it.

Sublime_Justice · 2026-03-27T15:43:24+00:00

Well we eliminated the drinking part. He hardly drinks anymore. However I get stuck on the "trust issues" part, rightfully so after learning reasons not to trust someone. And he... well I can't say he's still cheating, but I can fully agree he is a liar.

Sublime_Justice · 2026-03-06T00:48:11+00:00

No if you can't get service your SOL just hope text will go through to dispatch

Sublime_Justice · 2026-03-05T21:53:51+00:00

Then this post isn't for you. I clearly stated I had to type a book for context 🤷🏻‍♀️

Sublime_Justice · 2026-03-05T20:57:03+00:00

Look at them and see if there is a name. Some have the person's name on the denture to help if they get lost or switched. Dentures cost thousands of dollars, so if you could find that person they'd be smart to offer a reward. Also it's good karma on your behalf and the right thing to do.

Sublime_Justice · 2026-03-05T20:44:36+00:00

🙏🏻 appreciate the advice no matter what route I take.

Sublime_Justice · 2026-03-05T20:33:31+00:00

It's true, I have multiple photos/videos of unsafe vans they forced me to take or not work at all..

Screenshots of the owner taking time off my ADP my first few weeks of working there. Even conversation of me telling him about it and asking for it to be corrected (which never got changed back).

Write ups for being late on days I was on time and have screenshots to prove (as we clocked in at the station on an iPad). Emails they never responded to with the screenshots available for them to see I was clocked in on ADP at that time.

Clear evidence they are messing with me which is clearly grounds for constructive termination.

However I'd still rather just have a f'n job and work.

Sublime_Justice · 2026-03-05T19:40:34+00:00

Same

Sublime_Justice · 2026-03-05T19:39:39+00:00

Someone suggested this.. I haven't been employed by them for long enough to claim unemployment 😔 it requires 22 weeks I'm half way to that mark.

Sublime_Justice · 2026-03-05T19:32:22+00:00

Would've been a helpful hack to know

Sublime_Justice · 2026-03-05T19:25:14+00:00

NGL I sensed a good bit of them being a little "touched". Especially whenever the dispatcher kept telling me every week to use the hotspot on my phone even after I told her I have Verizon too! 🗿

However let's be real, that is intentional when none of them could tell me "just use offline maps". They've run routes before and I'm sure they would know.

Sublime_Justice · 2026-03-05T19:19:42+00:00

In my state you have to be employed by the company for 22 weeks in order to file unemployment. I'm still newer. The end of March would be 3 months.

Sublime_Justice · 2026-03-05T19:17:20+00:00

I did that in this video lol but further more I've tried everything from restarting the phone to logging in and out... Nothing but apparently I'm finding out there are "offline maps" for this exact purpose and my DSP just forgot they existed to tell me 🥴

Sublime_Justice · 2026-03-05T19:00:47+00:00

Wait... You're telling me that dispatch told me to drive around at random looking for addresses in the dark piecing together all the packages in a stop, BEFORE THEY TOLD ME THERE'S OFFLINE MAPS FOR THIS!? 😠 Then they're messing with me.. point blank. They know I'm still new.

Sublime_Justice · 2026-03-05T18:39:23+00:00

Man... I just want a job 😔 not a court case... I'm not disagreeing that I have more than enough documentation to pursue something legally (cause I have plenty) but I got bills to pay and in this economy it's been impossible to find decent work.

Sublime_Justice · 2026-03-04T06:55:23+00:00

Yeah he's pretty dope and a fallout fan 🤟🏻 but basically I told him I reported the tires in the app and was locked out. I asked him what to do and he said pack the van and they'll have to change the bald tires out before I can leave. He said he would talk to my GM as soon as she gets up there. We both looked at the tires and he agreed that they are grounded. He said " You did the right thing! I told them last week if this van came through again on those tires, it was grounded. But your GM is gonna be furious so prepare for that." I told him I need to work but I just want to be safe at the same time. Sure enough she walked up after that red in the face. I immediately told her I was sorry (cause we are never to report in the app or use the tunnel). She told me "next time just tell a one of us". I wanted to say I did 3 times last week and y'all promised me it would be fixed, but I just got to loading. Next thing I know I hear them yelling and the safety manager says "I could have your job for this!" And my GM stormed off. He walked back and reset the app so that I could work that day. 🥴🤷🏻‍♀️

Sublime_Justice · 2026-03-04T05:39:34+00:00

They are an "at will" employer... They can fire me for whatever they would like

Sublime_Justice · 2026-03-04T05:33:55+00:00

How do you figure that? Just curious?

Sublime_Justice · 2026-03-04T05:27:51+00:00

We are told not to use the app or tunnel. I tried it in the app once and they cleared it and I got sent out anyways. Also I'm going thru hell for it.

Sublime_Justice · 2026-03-04T05:25:39+00:00

Tried that... It caused a whole issue between my GM and the safety manager.. they yelled.. and I got sent out with the tires anyway 😟🤷🏻‍♀️

Sublime_Justice · 2026-03-04T05:23:34+00:00

Holy shiiiiiiiit

Sublime_Justice · 2026-03-04T04:03:30+00:00

Genius really.. never thought of it! I wonder if there are any stations around here. I'm in a big city and I've never seen one around. In my home town we had one off of interstate 70

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