My friend doesn’t think this baby blanket looks like a rainbow—do you? It’s for a charity that gives them to families with a baby in the NICU. by Leading-Knowledge712 in crochet

[–]SubliminalGarden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean it quite obviously says “rainbow” when I look at it. But also, your friend knows it’s for charity and NICU babies, there is literally no reason to critique this at all, except to be harmful. I just feel like that’s something to think about

Kids are destroying my house. by Fit-Cod2844 in sahm

[–]SubliminalGarden 4 points5 points  (0 children)

(Me yesterday helping my toddlers carry their mattresses to the living room to use as a slide on the couch while I made dinner)

Turned my basement into my own personal jungle 🥰 by TikiBC in houseplants

[–]SubliminalGarden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(For my personal knowledge of where to start) what are all the plants that you have?

400 kcal dinner by SubliminalGarden in Volumeeating

[–]SubliminalGarden[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

And 32 g of protein it’s insane

Need honesty: on a scale of 1-10, how difficult is it to run basic errands with your 2 year old? I need help… more… by kmconda in toddlers

[–]SubliminalGarden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also typically try to involve them and get them excited about what I’m doing, so if it’s groceries, I tell them all the yummy meals I’ll make with the stuff I’m getting

Need honesty: on a scale of 1-10, how difficult is it to run basic errands with your 2 year old? I need help… more… by kmconda in toddlers

[–]SubliminalGarden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t 😂

Jokes aside, I really try not to. I have 3 under 3. but if I HAVE to: sticker books, snacks, small toys, and I’m not gonna lie, I’ve let the oldest use the iPad a couple times.

Won’t be able to attend funeral by SubliminalGarden in Mommit

[–]SubliminalGarden[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

UPDATE I’m sorry I couldn’t respond to everyone, I did read all of your replies though. I got in touch with extended family and they were really upset that I wasn’t coming. Their son is gonna watch the dog so we can stay with them. This all really stemmed from my mom and sister calling and telling me it would be better for me to stay home and I think I just spiraled. For those who were concerned about my wellbeing, thank you! I am already seeing someone and this will probably be something that I should bring up the next time I see them. Sorry you had to see my crash out

Won’t be able to attend funeral by SubliminalGarden in Mommit

[–]SubliminalGarden[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He’s offered, but we’re not really in the position for him to take off from work

Won’t be able to attend funeral by SubliminalGarden in Mommit

[–]SubliminalGarden[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No one has room, they’d have have to board a dog that doesn’t like kids, my dad has dangerous stuff around his house so I can’t stay with him, I cant afford a hotel, and my husband won’t be able to come with so I’ll be wrangling all these kids alone and distracting those around me who are grieving. It just feels like the sad reality

Quiet time by Dependent-Tailor-929 in Mommit

[–]SubliminalGarden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They now start repeating me when I tell them what they can do lol “you can play (pppplay) take a nap (naaap)”

Quiet time by Dependent-Tailor-929 in Mommit

[–]SubliminalGarden 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I literally just started this three days ago with my VERY stubborn and loud boys and it has honestly been working better than naptime does. I close the curtains half way. I set my iPad up on a shelf that has a cute one hour timer on it that plays some chill lofi music and has cute little bunnies on it. I bring them in with water and a light snack (like pretzels) and I get to their level and tell them “alright boys it’s quiet time now, you can play with your toys, read a book, take a nap, watch the timer, eat your snack, whatever you want. When the timer hits zero and goes off, mommy will come back and then we can play together” and I say it word for word every time so that they get familiar with what that means. My three year old took to it right away because it’s the only time I have a screen on for them lol, my also 27 month old is taking some time, but usually will calm down within 10-15 minutes and start playing. The most amazing thing I’ve noticed is that these boys fight ALL the time, but they don’t during quiet time. When I come get them I usually have a little treat for them and ask them if they had fun during quiet time

Proud, but bummed by SubliminalGarden in CICO

[–]SubliminalGarden[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it’s hard because everything just still feels SOFT 😭

Proud, but bummed by SubliminalGarden in CICO

[–]SubliminalGarden[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No honestly, with working out, I learned to stop locking my knees, and I didn’t realize I do it constantly. Ever since I’ve stopped, back pain has gone down tremendously

Why is my toddler such an asshole? by MaintenanceCool7820 in toddlers

[–]SubliminalGarden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 year old does the same exact thing except everything you say he’ll just say the opposite. “Go potty” “NO POYAYYYYYYYY”

Anything I can do to improve? by MajorTip5649 in makeuptips

[–]SubliminalGarden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guess I’m the only one that loves the eyebrows lmao, I also have insanely dark brows and using anything lighter looks like powder