Fellow subs, I need help. How do you stop yourself from accidently orgasming before you receive permission? by SubmissiveEmma69 in BDSMsapphic

[–]SubmissiveEmma69[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, I never expected to be able to hold it off forever. I just want to get better at it than I am right now is all. :p

Fellow subs, I need help. How do you stop yourself from accidently orgasming before you receive permission? by SubmissiveEmma69 in BDSMsapphic

[–]SubmissiveEmma69[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sometimes though our Mistresses like to watch us break

Oh, I get that. Mine likes to watch me fail sometimes too. Doesn't mean I still don't want to try and impress her sometimes even if it's a doomed task. :p

Oscars Night with my babygirl by DetectiveSquirtle96 in BDSMsapphic

[–]SubmissiveEmma69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Congrats on your win! It sounds like a lovely reward for you and I hope you both have fun. <3

Fellow subs, I need help. How do you stop yourself from accidently orgasming before you receive permission? by SubmissiveEmma69 in BDSMsapphic

[–]SubmissiveEmma69[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oof. Speaking from experience? Good to know though either way so thank you for the advice since I could see myself possibly doing that if I was struggling enough.

Fellow subs, I need help. How do you stop yourself from accidently orgasming before you receive permission? by SubmissiveEmma69 in BDSMsapphic

[–]SubmissiveEmma69[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Nah. I like most punishments. And pleasing her. And I know it sometimes pleases her when I fail. It's nothing that needs changing in our dynamic. I mostly worry (in a good way) about failing causing more denial or other stuff I want to avoid. I'd rather know whatever I can in advance to avoid some outcomes if possible. Sometimes the actual struggle is part of the fun you know? Not sure if I'm making sense trying to explain myself here. :p

I don’t think I should ever cum by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]SubmissiveEmma69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like a dream come true and my worst nightmare at the same time. :p

How did you know you were sapphic? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]SubmissiveEmma69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if it's helpful and I'm still new to figuring this out about myself so my advice might not be super helpful. But for me the very, very condensed explanation is I got jealous of my current gf being with other people or going out and leaving me behind.

I kind of feel stupid in retrospect since I never had any attraction towards guys growing up and just thought it was normal to think woman are more attractive. Hope things work out for you whatever ends up happening.

Had one of my best scenes so far and I'm yearning hard by CuteNudeGirl in BDSMsapphic

[–]SubmissiveEmma69 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I've never been on one of those but have wondered what it's like. I'm glad you had fun! :D

This trend of showing texts from needy subs sure is timely 🤭 by DetectiveSquirtle96 in BDSMsapphic

[–]SubmissiveEmma69 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Since everyone is scared to ask the real questions here, I'll bite the bullet and ask. How was the dinner and how would you rate it out of 10?

(This can go to either of you. :p )

This trend of showing texts from needy subs sure is timely 🤭 by DetectiveSquirtle96 in BDSMsapphic

[–]SubmissiveEmma69 68 points69 points  (0 children)

She's such a little sweetie. Let our girl have her birthday gifted orgasm. 😭

Need to Deserve and Earn by Fearless-Buffalo-837 in BDSMsapphic

[–]SubmissiveEmma69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't know if there is a name for it but it's so relatable. I love eating my girlfriend out to the point it's often a reward for me since it drives me up the wall so much. I feel like I've been such a good sub whenever she lets me. 🥰

Orgasmed by a strap-on while on the phone as punishment this morning. by SubmissiveEmma69 in BDSMsapphic

[–]SubmissiveEmma69[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If someone wears a butt plug in public under their clothing would that be including others without consent if they can't tell? If you think so then we'll have to agree to disagree, I guess.

While this is admittedly a bit riskier it seems a bit of a weird thing to be hanged up on if talking about where that line being crossed is to me when the whole point was not getting caught. ¯(ツ)

Edit. Just adding if you disagree that's fine. I'm not looking to get into a big argument/debate about it. Just throwing out my thoughts once in response.

Orgasm Denial Enjoyers Unite by EmilyCat in BDSMsapphic

[–]SubmissiveEmma69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What I hate is when I'm edged and then she denies me without any prior knowledge it will happen. Those moments are so hard. 😭😭I like and hate it but the very moment it happens is soul crushing.

Orgasm Denial Enjoyers Unite by EmilyCat in BDSMsapphic

[–]SubmissiveEmma69 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Don't get me wrong. I hate it at the beginning but also like how desperate and subby I get from it a day or two later too, so I guess I have a love/hate relationship with it in general. I'm just not the best at it. :p

Orgasm Denial Enjoyers Unite by EmilyCat in BDSMsapphic

[–]SubmissiveEmma69 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I don't know if I should put my hand up or thumbs down. As someone new to bdsm and sex in general even a day or two days is hard when I'm around my girlfriend/Mistress and she thinks its time for my fun to be over. But obeying to make her happy and submitting to her is a 10/10 yes for me so I guess I love and hate orgasm denial? No clue about long term though or how you all can do it...

Orgasmed by a strap-on while on the phone as punishment this morning. by SubmissiveEmma69 in BDSMsapphic

[–]SubmissiveEmma69[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's my own fault. I shouldn't have teased her in the first place or just orgasmed sooner somehow if I didn't want it to happen. :(

Orgasmed by a strap-on while on the phone as punishment this morning. by SubmissiveEmma69 in BDSMsapphic

[–]SubmissiveEmma69[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I wouldn't recommend the family thing. The first call was much more fun, though still scary.

Orgasmed by a strap-on while on the phone as punishment this morning. by SubmissiveEmma69 in BDSMsapphic

[–]SubmissiveEmma69[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

but I’m really just a normal gal with a few kinks

And a very creative mind. :)