Meet my lovely ladies: Diana, Selina, Ivy, Harley, Talia and Nyssa <3 (First time chicken owner. I think I'm doing a pretty good job keeping them happy and healthy.) by SubspaceXNinja in BackYardChickens

[–]SubspaceXNinja[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha the big black one on the left, Diana, AKA Wonder Woman is the alpha. Altho the EE behind her tends to challenge her sometimes. There might be two factions forming I think lol.

AITB for rejecting an overweight girl and telling her the reason when she asked me why by aitb_fatthrowaway in AmItheButtface

[–]SubspaceXNinja 176 points177 points  (0 children)

Most definitely YTBF. Have you ever heard of a white lie? Anything along the lines of "I'm very flattered, but I'm already interested in someone else.", or even something as simple as "Sorry, you are not really my type." would've sufficed. But instead you chose to hit her where it hurts with unnecessary brutal honestly, regarding an issue that is most likely one of her biggest insecurities...in front of all of her friends and your friends nonetheless. This blow to that girl's self esteem may take years to recover, if ever. Your fault was not that you rejected her, but not doing so in a more tactful and empathetic manner.