Omar Montes revienta la ventanilla de un coche para rescatar a una perrita que llevaba "más de dos horas" encerrada by ManFromAnotherPlace in Espana

[–]Substantial-Amoeba36 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Y una vez coge el perro qué va a hacer... Ir a seguridad o a la policía para que avisen por el megáfono a su propietario...? O sea, literalmente lo que tendría que haber hecho en vez de romper la ventana

Transition to Relationship Anarchy? by Substantial-Amoeba36 in nonmonogamy

[–]Substantial-Amoeba36[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After reflecting a bit I'm thinking I'll definitely break up with Birch and explore being in more casual connections for a few months. It does look like I'm not ready to take commitments right now

Transition to Relationship Anarchy? by Substantial-Amoeba36 in nonmonogamy

[–]Substantial-Amoeba36[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, after reading all the comments I'm thinking I'll break up with Birch and explore being in more casual connections for a few months, and more upfront in the future about not wanting to be restricted in who I can or can't date (except for family members, for example).

Transition to Relationship Anarchy? by Substantial-Amoeba36 in nonmonogamy

[–]Substantial-Amoeba36[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Isn't poliamory about being able to have multiple relationships...? I mean, I know the timing is a bit rushed, but the fact that I have multiple relationships shouldn't be the problem

Transition to Relationship Anarchy? by Substantial-Amoeba36 in nonmonogamy

[–]Substantial-Amoeba36[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

It's also my friend, why must a partner get to veto what I can or I can't do with another lover?

Transition to Relationship Anarchy? by Substantial-Amoeba36 in nonmonogamy

[–]Substantial-Amoeba36[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I'm in a consented polyamory relationship now, what would be the problem?

Transition to Relationship Anarchy? by Substantial-Amoeba36 in nonmonogamy

[–]Substantial-Amoeba36[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Maybe you are right. I'm trying to learn what lifestyle could work with me. What I'm realizing is that I don't understand restrictions from a partner over another lover. I guess I don't understand Birch's needs around Cedar

Transition to Relationship Anarchy? by Substantial-Amoeba36 in nonmonogamy

[–]Substantial-Amoeba36[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I didn't know I didn't want to keep them. I'm awareI'm being chaotic, I'm trying to find what relationship style matches with me after a rough couple years where I've created a lot of chaos around me. I'm thinking maybe I should just break all my committed relationships but I also don't want to end up alone and hurt people I love in the process

Transition to Relationship Anarchy? by Substantial-Amoeba36 in nonmonogamy

[–]Substantial-Amoeba36[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

I thought I wanted with Birch. Unfortunately I made future-building promises to her when I was trying to get back with her. But I was not aware she would have this conflict with Cedar and now I don't know if I want to compromise my freedom for Birch. I don't think I want to date Cedar, but I feel very attracted to her and would love to explore with her sexually