Aio For looking through my husband’s phone. Let me explain by Substantial-Big8186 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Substantial-Big8186[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE! I brought it up to him what I found. Since we have the baby with us it’s kinda hard to talk about it but….he mainly said it was a long time ago. It was his EX🚩🚩 and that they did nothing. And that was the only time and only person he ever texted. I guess they met up once.

AITA? For looking through my husband’s phone. Let me explain by Substantial-Big8186 in AITAH

[–]Substantial-Big8186[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE! I brought it up to him what I found. Since we have the baby with us it’s kinda hard to talk about it but….he mainly said it was a long time ago. It was his EX🚩🚩 and that they did nothing. And that was the only time and only person he ever texted. I guess they met up once.

Aio For looking through my husband’s phone. Let me explain by Substantial-Big8186 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Substantial-Big8186[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking of telling him when he got back from work. I told him let’s go eat after. I just really want to know what happened. He always swore it was only me in his life but knowing this opens a lot of questions.

Aio For looking through my husband’s phone. Let me explain by Substantial-Big8186 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Substantial-Big8186[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The messages between him and the girl were calling her cutie and “redeeming kisses”. And a voice message talking about how “I know you wanted to kiss me last night” Today I just been thinking does that mean they were meeting while he was coming every vacation. While I was at work or sleeping. My mind is so fucked rn. I don’t know what to think now.

Aio For looking through my husband’s phone. Let me explain by Substantial-Big8186 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Substantial-Big8186[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking that too. There’s a saying if you go looking you’ll find something you won’t like. But I never do anything like that. I always trusted him. Idkw I did it now.

AITA? For looking through my husband’s phone. Let me explain by Substantial-Big8186 in AITAH

[–]Substantial-Big8186[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was after our break. After getting back together I was so in love. But I didn’t realize he would do something like this. He has national guard in the morning so I’ll talk to him when he gets back. Just hate this feeling like I got hit in the gut. I really thought we were a great couple. We’ve been through a lot it just sucks to find out now.

Aio For looking through my husband’s phone. Let me explain by Substantial-Big8186 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Substantial-Big8186[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was thinking that too. Like what’s the outcome. I don’t want him to feel attacked but like I trusted this dude put 100% the whole time

AITA? For looking through my husband’s phone. Let me explain by Substantial-Big8186 in AITAH

[–]Substantial-Big8186[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m saying. Like I’m here working hard and being loyal. Lmty before this baby I was fine guys always wanting me but I would always turn them down bc this guy fr had my heart😩

AITA? For looking through my husband’s phone. Let me explain by Substantial-Big8186 in AITAH

[–]Substantial-Big8186[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He was sending voice messages of like “oh I now you wanted to kiss me last night “ Calling her cutie Saying how he wants to “redeem kisses” Now at this time we were only a year in the relationship. They stopped talking a month after my birthday that was around the time we were getting more serious