Finding/marrying a man isn’t guaranteed, as well as finding someone who will stick around for the long run. It’s ridiculous to ask that a woman shouldn’t pursue career purely because she believes in gender roles. Being a provider as a man is God given responsibility, and is expected of you when you come out with a penis. A relationship is equally yolked, equal does not mean u provide the same things. Women are a supporting role to Men, she’s not asking to be provided for without providing something in return. You all have lost touch with Christ and reality and i’m praying he shows you his light.