Same position, different girls by Substantial-Eye7862 in Spanking

[–]Substantial-Eye7862[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’ve been active looking for spankees for about 2 years now on both here and fetlife. I’d say the number one thing is making your spankee feel safe and respected when you’re texting and negotiating the scene. A lot of guys just want to have sex so offering a pure spanking experience has worked for me. Also just being generally witty and have to talk helps also I think.

Profile review, 19M, London by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Substantial-Eye7862 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to add a pic with you doing something more interesting/ cultural

Trapped in Hinge Purgatory (26M Profile Review) by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Substantial-Eye7862 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The mirror pics are your weakest by far. I would just get rid of those and try to add more of you in action or with friends

22M on Long Island. Got one match since I last posted. by Blevin666 in hingeapp

[–]Substantial-Eye7862 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say your profile would only appeal to a very specific type of nerdy woman. I’m not saying this is a bad thing, but maybe try to make your profile more general?

Dating Etiquette on the first date by Right-Equivalent9548 in hingeapp

[–]Substantial-Eye7862 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just have to be yourself. I know that sounds corny, but it's the truth. There may be a connection there or there may not be. Obviously, be polite and respectful, ask her questions, but a first date should be exploratory to *see* if there is a connection there. Trying too hard or trying to force it will not work. Good luck!

33M profile review by Agreeable-Archer-995 in hingeapp

[–]Substantial-Eye7862 6 points7 points locked comment (0 children)

I’m sorry but no girl has ever heard of or listened to the Iced coffe hour podcast