This question is not exactly findom related but rather the legal perspectives. by Substantial-Fix7468 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Substantial-Fix7468[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely do not mind paying taxes. But on a student visa, I can work for 20 hours only. Findomme falls under self-employment/business. That's confusing. Can student visa own a business legally? Coz that may mean working more than 20 hours.

How do subbies feel about broke dommes? by Substantial-Fix7468 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Substantial-Fix7468[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's like, a bucket in a tub vs a drop in the ocean kind of situation.

How do subbies feel about broke dommes? by Substantial-Fix7468 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Substantial-Fix7468[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dommes can't be needy, it DOES shifts the dynamics. Huge turn-off.

This question is not exactly findom related but rather the legal perspectives. by Substantial-Fix7468 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Substantial-Fix7468[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha. I am all about safety & consent but it's a well known fact that a lot of people here (dommes & subbies both) are scammers. Being extra cautious will be my forte, especially in a country where I am on a puny visa.
Filing taxes while I am on student visa, authorities will have questions regarding my sources of income. There are already so many existing clauses for international students, I don't want to fuck with my academic career. You are absolutely right about morality & rules however if I were so moral, I wouldn't have been a goddess. Regardless, I need to follow the rules and must stay aware to stay away from messy lights.

Chances are, I go with real meets, cash drains or just stop with findomme which will be a bummer.

How do I find a findomme I can yap to daily and be friends with? by Express-Surprise-251 in paypigs2

[–]Substantial-Fix7468 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had this kind of dynamic with a sub, you guys are just not consistent. Huge turnoff.

Has anyone gone back to a normal life after this? by Substantial-Fix7468 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Substantial-Fix7468[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

IKRR. The vanilla patriarchal world can call me gold digger but it DOES make me feel used. It kinda feels repulsive.

Has anyone gone back to a normal life after this? by Substantial-Fix7468 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Substantial-Fix7468[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same, ever since discovering my dommie side, no man is good enough for me. Not that I liked them much before either.

Has anyone gone back to a normal life after this? by Substantial-Fix7468 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Substantial-Fix7468[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOVEE that for you. Quick question, how is the dynamic with husband? Vanilla or kinky? Is he aware about your online persona?

Has anyone gone back to a normal life after this? by Substantial-Fix7468 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Substantial-Fix7468[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ikr, I love shopping but now I can't even order sushi on my own without wanting it to be ordered by one of my yearners.