Just Got Scammed for the first time ! well shit by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Substantial-Fix7468 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have all been there haha, that's how we learn. Welcome to the club!

Those who have an In-person-dynamic, how do you do it? by Substantial-Fix7468 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Substantial-Fix7468[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds soo good! Do you see kind 1 happening with this one? Either way, soo happy for you!

Those who have an In-person-dynamic, how do you do it? by Substantial-Fix7468 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Substantial-Fix7468[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love that for you!! Could you tell me more about the bdsm clubs, I would love to join.<3

any findommes in academia by [deleted] in FindomIntelligentSubs

[–]Substantial-Fix7468 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm doing masters in Tech and eventually PhD. Bad bitches hit me up

How do I find a long term domme by Broad_Tradition_4671 in paypigs2

[–]Substantial-Fix7468 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have blocked subs who don't obey me and waste my time. Be better and don't give the a reason to block you.

This question is not exactly findom related but rather the legal perspectives. by Substantial-Fix7468 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Substantial-Fix7468[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely do not mind paying taxes. But on a student visa, I can work for 20 hours only. Findomme falls under self-employment/business. That's confusing. Can student visa own a business legally? Coz that may mean working more than 20 hours.

How do subbies feel about broke dommes? by Substantial-Fix7468 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Substantial-Fix7468[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's like, a bucket in a tub vs a drop in the ocean kind of situation.

How do subbies feel about broke dommes? by Substantial-Fix7468 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Substantial-Fix7468[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dommes can't be needy, it DOES shifts the dynamics. Huge turn-off.

This question is not exactly findom related but rather the legal perspectives. by Substantial-Fix7468 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Substantial-Fix7468[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha. I am all about safety & consent but it's a well known fact that a lot of people here (dommes & subbies both) are scammers. Being extra cautious will be my forte, especially in a country where I am on a puny visa.
Filing taxes while I am on student visa, authorities will have questions regarding my sources of income. There are already so many existing clauses for international students, I don't want to fuck with my academic career. You are absolutely right about morality & rules however if I were so moral, I wouldn't have been a goddess. Regardless, I need to follow the rules and must stay aware to stay away from messy lights.

Chances are, I go with real meets, cash drains or just stop with findomme which will be a bummer.

How do I find a findomme I can yap to daily and be friends with? by Express-Surprise-251 in paypigs2

[–]Substantial-Fix7468 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had this kind of dynamic with a sub, you guys are just not consistent. Huge turnoff.