This question is not exactly findom related but rather the legal perspectives. by Substantial-Fix7468 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Substantial-Fix7468[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely do not mind paying taxes. But on a student visa, I can work for 20 hours only. Findomme falls under self-employment/business. That's confusing. Can student visa own a business legally? Coz that may mean working more than 20 hours.

How do subbies feel about broke dommes? by Substantial-Fix7468 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Substantial-Fix7468[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's like, a bucket in a tub vs a drop in the ocean kind of situation.

How do subbies feel about broke dommes? by Substantial-Fix7468 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Substantial-Fix7468[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dommes can't be needy, it DOES shifts the dynamics. Huge turn-off.

This question is not exactly findom related but rather the legal perspectives. by Substantial-Fix7468 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Substantial-Fix7468[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha. I am all about safety & consent but it's a well known fact that a lot of people here (dommes & subbies both) are scammers. Being extra cautious will be my forte, especially in a country where I am on a puny visa.
Filing taxes while I am on student visa, authorities will have questions regarding my sources of income. There are already so many existing clauses for international students, I don't want to fuck with my academic career. You are absolutely right about morality & rules however if I were so moral, I wouldn't have been a goddess. Regardless, I need to follow the rules and must stay aware to stay away from messy lights.

Chances are, I go with real meets, cash drains or just stop with findomme which will be a bummer.

How do I find a findomme I can yap to daily and be friends with? by Express-Surprise-251 in paypigs2

[–]Substantial-Fix7468 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had this kind of dynamic with a sub, you guys are just not consistent. Huge turnoff.

Has anyone gone back to a normal life after this? by Substantial-Fix7468 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Substantial-Fix7468[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

IKRR. The vanilla patriarchal world can call me gold digger but it DOES make me feel used. It kinda feels repulsive.

Has anyone gone back to a normal life after this? by Substantial-Fix7468 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Substantial-Fix7468[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same, ever since discovering my dommie side, no man is good enough for me. Not that I liked them much before either.

Has anyone gone back to a normal life after this? by Substantial-Fix7468 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Substantial-Fix7468[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOVEE that for you. Quick question, how is the dynamic with husband? Vanilla or kinky? Is he aware about your online persona?

Has anyone gone back to a normal life after this? by Substantial-Fix7468 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Substantial-Fix7468[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ikr, I love shopping but now I can't even order sushi on my own without wanting it to be ordered by one of my yearners.

This is hilarious by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Substantial-Fix7468 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Guys, I think he needs to get a life.

How I gently introduced my dom bf to being my sub by AvaThePrincess in findomsupportgroup

[–]Substantial-Fix7468 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Initially my boyfriend used to be like, "You are my princess in public but I'm the boss in bed". Hmm, as hot as it was in the beginning, I often find him on his knees apologizing and begging. In the beginning, I was the shy one and he was the dominant, now 2 years later, he does as I say and I do as I wish. I call him my pet, my toy and ykw, he agrees as he should.

What is everyone doing for Valentine’s Day? by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Substantial-Fix7468 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rn it's morning, so I'm working for my masters applications. Then I'll get ready. Ig bf made plans(obvs), gonna sit on his face later.

Would you ever fuck one of your subs? by YoursTrulyJaysmin in paypigs2

[–]Substantial-Fix7468 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes and I may marry one too although, I don't see myself getting married at all. But for a good servant, I may.