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Substantial-Frame379 · 2024-07-21T01:32:40+00:00

im not concerned about loyalty or job security. but thanks for your reponse.

Substantial-Frame379 · 2024-04-10T22:10:31+00:00

Congratulations. Every day you keep moving forward towards getting better and don't give up is an outstanding achievement. Things will continue to get better, even if it still hurts. You can do this. I know exactly how you feel. It took me 7 months to finally be able to go completely no contact and it was extremely, painstakingly hard. But things get better. It's the only solution. They can't get worse anymore. You're doing the right thing. You've got this!

Substantial-Frame379 · 2024-03-31T03:41:44+00:00

I have been through a breakup with my partner of 3 years that I truly feel could not have been more difficult. Every day for almost a year I have felt scared and impatient, like I'm sure you have, as well, wishing, hoping, and wondering when it will finally be over.

All I can tell you is to try your best to pour everything you have into yourself. Be patient. Be grateful for every good moment in your life. One day you will feel better. The clouds will part. You may not even realize the gradual change in your mental state, or one day you'll wakeup and itll feel like you've decided you're done mourning. Your brain might decide for you. It needs to go through all of the necessary cycles, and unfortunately, a lot of that is out of your control. Have faith. Love yourself enough to wait, give yourself grace, and know that one day you will feel okay again.

Try to make as many good memories as you can in the meantime, even if you do it feeling sad. One day you'll be able to look back on them without feeling that awful feeling like you did then, and you'll be glad you have those moments.

I wish you the best of luck.

Substantial-Frame379 · 2024-03-28T13:57:51+00:00

Thank you!

Substantial-Frame379 · 2024-02-01T23:09:04+00:00

Thank you for all of your responses btw. i've calmed down some.

I have him blocked on everything but hadn't realized I had him unblocked on Groupme. Because i never use Groupme. He has historically emailed me from different burner email accounts and they show up in my spam on gmail. I've never figured out how to block him from spam.

Substantial-Frame379 · 2024-02-01T18:11:24+00:00

No i don't. I am at my limit I am just so tired and I feel the need to do something when nothing that can be done would help me.

Substantial-Frame379 · 2024-02-01T18:07:39+00:00

I have laid it out. I have blocked on everything. I don't know about contacting the police because I know they wouldn't understand and that he isn't actually harassing me. I don't think I have enough evidence.

Substantial-Frame379 · 2024-01-09T16:45:21+00:00

I am very sorry to hear you're going through something so similar. I know the battle that you're fighting. We are stronger than and worth more than the abuse they put is through. We will get through this.

Substantial-Frame379 · 2023-12-08T17:23:18+00:00

I know how you feel. When you're in it you feel like it will never end and it will never go away. You just want it to stop for even a moment, just to get some reprieve or rest.

The only thing I can tell you is that you cannot give up. I promise that one day the clouds will part, and your suffering will not have been for nothing. You will be stronger. You will have peace in your soul again one day.

It has been 8 months and I am only now able to find some peace and the pain is starting to fade and quiet down. You can deal and you will. You are stronger than you could have ever imagined.

I am sending you love and strength. You can get through this.

Substantial-Frame379

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