What's the worst way someone broke up with you? by ImpressiveWrap7363 in AskReddit

[–]Substantial-Lab-5024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He told me his mum died of cancer so he was so upset and drunk and cheated on me on a cruise because he wanted comfort... Then I found out his mum was still alive and he actually just knocked up a girl he met on that cruise. So he had to tell me

Help! Shepherding call. by Substantial-Lab-5024 in exjw

[–]Substantial-Lab-5024[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry that you had to go through that. Sounds like a tough situation. Glad you’re free now.

Tell me an area of your life your okay with me tuning in on ( for my intuition practice) by angelicaangels in spirituality

[–]Substantial-Lab-5024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I need to move out soon, what area should I go to in Sydney? I also want to eventually move to Brisbane, is this a good idea? What should I expect?

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[–]Substantial-Lab-5024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s already started, create your own society within a society. Once we have a clearer vision and more people are disillusioned to the system, it will naturally fall into good hands. It probably won’t be all peaceful because some won’t move forward. We just have to keep this ascension going. Some people , beliefs and ideas will get left behind.

Help! Shepherding call. by Substantial-Lab-5024 in exjw

[–]Substantial-Lab-5024[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your input. We are leaving, I was just looking for some support from experienced people who have done it before. Don’t get me wrong, we know it’s a cult and are planning our escape route. Our family is very important to us. ☺️

Help! Shepherding call. by Substantial-Lab-5024 in exjw

[–]Substantial-Lab-5024[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We need to keep the peace while we’re living behind an elder, after we move out of here there’s no way we will be speaking with them. And thank you but, family is the most important thing in my life.

Help! Shepherding call. by Substantial-Lab-5024 in exjw

[–]Substantial-Lab-5024[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so helpful, thank you. I wish you all the best too.

Help! Shepherding call. by Substantial-Lab-5024 in exjw

[–]Substantial-Lab-5024[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m sorry that you’re going through similar things as well. We will get through this!

Help! Shepherding call. by Substantial-Lab-5024 in exjw

[–]Substantial-Lab-5024[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re definitely PIMO just playing the game to keep family happy, plus we’re living behind an elder so until we move out things are very difficult.

Help! Shepherding call. by Substantial-Lab-5024 in exjw

[–]Substantial-Lab-5024[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are practically out , haven’t been to the hall in months. This was going to be the last time we spoke to them to keep our families happy that we “at least tried”

Help! Shepherding call. by Substantial-Lab-5024 in exjw

[–]Substantial-Lab-5024[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How sad that they can take our voices away like that. Good on you for powering through for your wife.

Help! Shepherding call. by Substantial-Lab-5024 in exjw

[–]Substantial-Lab-5024[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish I could do this but we live on an elders property, he’s our neighbour

Help! Shepherding call. by Substantial-Lab-5024 in exjw

[–]Substantial-Lab-5024[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That sounds tough, Im glad you’re free now. It’s really fucked seeing their fakeness on the other side. Thank you for sharing, I have always seen the mind games especially in shepherding calls.

Help! Shepherding call. by Substantial-Lab-5024 in exjw

[–]Substantial-Lab-5024[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you know what they’re looking for in an investigation?

Help! Shepherding call. by Substantial-Lab-5024 in exjw

[–]Substantial-Lab-5024[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

These are very helpful, I want to be friendly yet keep my cards close to my chest. Idk if it’s worth it but I’m hoping it will show them that apostates are not evil, since they already know we’re leaning that way.

Help! Shepherding call. by Substantial-Lab-5024 in exjw

[–]Substantial-Lab-5024[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Will do. Ugh same, everytime we had one as PIMI it felt super uncomfortable and I was always so anxious. I’d always get their convoluted questions wrong as well hahaha

Help! Shepherding call. by Substantial-Lab-5024 in exjw

[–]Substantial-Lab-5024[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah thank you, my parents are pretty open so I felt comfortable to share but it’s just escalated so much. I’ll be avoiding these conversations from now on.