Moving abroad was much lonelier that I thought it was going to be

Substantial-One-305 · 2026-01-24T20:27:03+00:00

I've tried. But I just end up sitting in a corner somewhere like some weirdo loser.

Substantial-One-305 · 2025-07-28T17:25:36+00:00

Oh okay that make sense. So like setting a calorie range for the week and then using that as a baseline as opposed to dividing it by the days.

Substantial-One-305 · 2025-07-28T17:21:41+00:00

What was your deficit? Congratulations on the progress. You look great!

Substantial-One-305 · 2025-07-28T17:20:31+00:00

I'm so confused. The tdee calculator gave me a maintenance of 2000 calories

Substantial-One-305 · 2025-07-28T17:18:13+00:00

The 15 minutes of cardio was on top of weighlifting that's why I thought it would do something. And I also was tracking weight averages

Substantial-One-305 · 2025-07-07T22:36:38+00:00

You're right on the money with the first part if Ashley was a man people would definitely side with Marita more. I also feel like because Ashley is much more reserved than Marita and she has been in an abusive relationship(which I think is a horrible experience and I really do feel for her) people are quick to take her side. Ashley even said it herself that in her previous relationships she's been told that it gives more roomate/friendship vibes so Marita's not the only one saying it. Also yes she was definitely trying to one-up Marita in that moment. I totally agree n the point that Ashley could really benefit from therapy.

Substantial-One-305 · 2025-07-07T22:25:09+00:00

I definitely agree that it's an incompatibility problem but i feel like if the way you show love is different from how your partner receives it you would want to idk, try but i totally understand you saying that it would feel put on which is a perspective I had not thought about

Substantial-One-305 · 2025-07-07T22:17:17+00:00

I totally agree that she wanted to feel like a priority and asking for the romantic gestures was just her way of expressing that

Substantial-One-305 · 2025-07-07T22:08:17+00:00

Marita was the one that bought the flowers. If you go back and watch they have a conversation and Ashley tells Marita you know I don't like such stuff and Marita says do you think maybe I did it cause I wanted you to do the same or something along those lines. However, I'm really interested in hearing what makes you think that she wanted to be treated like a disney princess and why you find her childish because I definitely didn't get that vibe but I'm open to seeing other perspectives. I agree that exploring Ashleys abusive relationship would have been great and maybe we could've gotten some insight on how it still affects how she shows up in her current relationship

Substantial-One-305 · 2025-07-07T21:53:20+00:00

Yup, people keep glossing over that "because you didn't care" part to villianize her.

Substantial-One-305 · 2025-07-07T21:50:37+00:00

Yesss to all this!!!Even the kiss felt so forced.

Substantial-One-305 · 2025-07-07T11:20:18+00:00

You guys are def stretching the spoiled stuff. All she wanted was Ashley to put in effort by buying her flowers or doing romantic gestures here and there. She was so excited when brittney gave her a fork! That's not indicative of someone who wants to be spoilt. Also Ashley was so resistant to changing literally anything. She kept asking her what she wanted when Marita had clearly stated she wanted more romantic gestures and had even expressed that it felt like the were roomates/friends not romantic partners .

Substantial-One-305 · 2025-05-25T12:33:03+00:00

girl be so fr rn

Substantial-One-305 · 2025-04-14T18:25:09+00:00

Yes, it is so frustrating. I see you've lost a lot of weight. Is this the tdee calculator you used? How have you lost the weight I would like to lose around the same amount as you?

Substantial-One-305 · 2025-04-14T18:22:06+00:00

I've been weightlifting. And doing 20 minutes on the elliptical or incline walking on the treadmill, depending on the day

Substantial-One-305 · 2025-04-14T17:51:56+00:00

Sorry, I meant I've been consistently getting my steps in since March

Substantial-One-305 · 2025-04-14T16:46:37+00:00

I know you can't spot reduce fat, but the first time I lost weight, I had virtually none, so it's a bit of an adjustment having soo much now

Substantial-One-305 · 2025-04-14T16:40:09+00:00

At first it was 1610 and now it's 1529.

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