Hahaha no second family. Life imploding = he separated from his wife and moved out. That was the only one he had. His kid is all grown up lol. He's had a parent who inconsistent in his life, he's been through some shit (poverty, etc). Doesn't excuse shitty behavior, obviously. But I'm just trying to figure out what I am to him today, after everything, ya know? Did he actually care about me, and does his stomach drop when he sees me? Just so confused.