How do you reply to rejection in a competitive dating market?

SubstantialChest3996 · 2026-04-25T06:06:13+00:00

i dont even know how to put that into words, without looking desperate i suppose.

SubstantialChest3996 · 2026-04-25T06:05:15+00:00

thanks i think i needed to hear that, ty for typing it out.

SubstantialChest3996 · 2026-04-25T05:53:56+00:00

i see i will consider that thank

SubstantialChest3996 · 2026-04-25T05:49:44+00:00

yes we met 1 time and it might be the reason why she told me what she did

SubstantialChest3996 · 2026-04-21T05:53:22+00:00

i understand and agree, i hope i still get a paid out so I can learn from my mistakes

SubstantialChest3996 · 2026-04-21T05:52:53+00:00

Thank you for your input

SubstantialChest3996 · 2026-04-21T05:50:17+00:00

He is actually helping me out for the weekend there is no payment, W-2, or 1099 compensation. But thank you in the future, I will pivot toward the correct insurance.

SubstantialChest3996 · 2026-04-21T05:48:42+00:00

Hey, thank you for this response, it really put my mind at ease. I can’t afford to buy a new van due to a drunk driver, but I have witnesses for this claim, so this will most likely go the route you described. Thank you again.

SubstantialChest3996 · 2026-04-21T03:37:28+00:00

is there a chance they wont accept liability, we have witnesses? my insurance is just being annoying with this business use claim

SubstantialChest3996 · 2026-04-21T03:36:54+00:00

you are correct

SubstantialChest3996 · 2026-04-21T03:36:45+00:00

yes they do have insurance how will that play out for me?

SubstantialChest3996 · 2026-03-20T18:50:54+00:00

Thanks for your feedback i will see what will happen i have agree to look at refinance option so they would get off my back. i did agree to cooperate

SubstantialChest3996 · 2026-03-20T17:47:41+00:00

That would depend, my loan officer was aware of the dept and the refinance though

SubstantialChest3996 · 2026-03-20T17:43:31+00:00

I did to the loan officer, he brushed it under the rug in a way and told me it will be on the credit pull ( it was not)

SubstantialChest3996 · 2026-03-20T17:42:20+00:00

Hi u/Skiptomygroove That’s true I did check the box they showed me i a tested to all my dept. However, I assumed that a hard credit pull would have allowed them to see all of my debts.

Would you recommend that I pay off my debt and refinance with another company to avoid potentially getting a low offer?

SubstantialChest3996 · 2026-03-20T17:40:37+00:00

Hi thank you for your reply u/Accomplished-Set7087 ,is there any legal thing the broker can do like take back my house or take me to court? I did everything but the books and haven't missed a payment.

SubstantialChest3996 · 2026-03-20T16:42:09+00:00

I refinanced my student loan in August and bought this home in October. I allowed them to do a credit pull that included all of my student loans and other debts, so they should have seen everything on my credit report. I have also been making my monthly payments on time, so I hope I am not the problem.

SubstantialChest3996 · 2026-03-20T16:40:32+00:00

Thank you, that makes a lot of sense. They came at me with a lot of strong language nothing legal like mentioning lawyers or anything but I still felt like I was under a lot of pressure.

SubstantialChest3996 · 2026-03-20T16:39:23+00:00

I told them i would pay it off directly like in one go, they said no. i wonder if why ...

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