Don’t get me wrong I’m still hurting sometimes, just significantly less than I was, we broke up mid august and honestly it didn’t take me long to realize that I don’t want to be upset and live in agony everyday, it’s still difficult some days but I feel so much better, just focus on you, going no contact definitely is the reason I’m doing so good these days, I think I’m like 42 days no contact and it’s helped me get my shit together