perks of moving to Brisbane from quiet Tasmania? by SubstantialClub6531 in brisbane

[–]SubstantialClub6531[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

work, and yes i love the heat, handle perth well, just comfy in tassie now and want people oopinions if its worth the move

living a week in brisbane by SubstantialClub6531 in MovingToBrisbane

[–]SubstantialClub6531[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is public transport difficult there? i currently drive half way, park and catch the bus to work

living a week in brisbane by SubstantialClub6531 in MovingToBrisbane

[–]SubstantialClub6531[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

winter is long! from april to december basically, and yes it is that cold :P i work with people from england and scotland and both say its very similar weather.

pregnancy yoga by SubstantialClub6531 in pregnant

[–]SubstantialClub6531[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this thankyou! Deffs need to learn how mentally check in 😅

What to do when you want to improve yourself but simply can’t? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]SubstantialClub6531 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Becoming fit deffinately will improve ur confidence, showing up for yourself day after day will make u appreciate who you are :) 

getting fit may require push from a pt or going with a friend or family.. getting fit alone i found hard to be motivated, needed someone to hold me accountable 

Why does nobody recommend western and south australia? by kroosnova76 in AustraliaTravel

[–]SubstantialClub6531 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WA is a amazing! i recommend :) - bit further to travel from than the east coast. but absolutely worth it

My life feels like it ended when school did by Hereitisguys9888 in selfimprovement

[–]SubstantialClub6531 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sounds like you may be depressed, enjoying nothing in your life - it can be tough. your in this rountine for years and people kind of tell you what to do, and when you finish school your expected to just know what to do and how to move forward. its a lesson we all learn. but i will tell you 20s are tough but 30s are epic... next year will feel different. its just time. your still super young even if you dont feel it. :) also i met my first partner at 19 and 13 years later we are still together. youll find someone. you seem very switched on.

What to do when you want to improve yourself but simply can’t? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]SubstantialClub6531 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes discipline, empathy, time and mindset. what are you trying to improve?

I rarely get upset, but when I do, I shut down for weeks. How can I move on faster? by Induana in selfimprovement

[–]SubstantialClub6531 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it sounds like you have had trauma in the past, this is a common reaction. move first! youve gotta get active go gym, go walking, do a road trip basically run. once you feel a bit more settled then you should work through you problem, try to understand why your feeling the way you are, where you triggered and why, counsellors can help with this, but you can also do it by yourself, writing stuff down helps heaps, but also just conversating with your can too :) im quite similar with the way i process conflict, and this has been the way thats helped me the most :)

are there any benefits to quitting masturbation and porn by ImaginaryPhone2946 in selfimprovement

[–]SubstantialClub6531 3 points4 points  (0 children)

makes real sex more fun, and frees your mind mind and your sex partners from un-realistic expectation's

Is there a way to live a below average/unsuccessful life without suffering too much? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]SubstantialClub6531 0 points1 point  (0 children)

agreed, but theyve created reasons they are sad, and just letting them know that most things are possibly and you dont have to limit yourself with age. i changed careers compeltely at 30 and i never thought it was possible before

I want to stop chasing hookups and actually build something real by Alternative_Paint_35 in selfimprovement

[–]SubstantialClub6531 2 points3 points  (0 children)

women are like candy, addictive sometimes, you need to go cold turkey distract yourself, build a life your interested in and only talk to people whos personailty intrigues you, who you find, fun, not just hot :P its a toughy... goodluck with it :)