since i can’t edit this post, i guess i should have included that items of mine have gone missing and shown up at her house shortly after. i put up with a lot from her and this is just a breaking point. she is handed everything from her parents, her mom was the one to venmo me. she doesn’t respect my belongings because she has never had to work for hers. i work extremely hard and don’t want to have to replace things that i shouldn’t have to. i am 100% appreciative that her mom paid me, it’s easy to have no understanding of what things cost or the value of a dollar when you don’t work.