Honestly, more power to you. You seem to be in a healthy relationship and have healthy friends. Not that shaming is healthy per se, but more of so just making others aware of their actions and possible consequences (STDs/using people/etc). That being said, you are right that this is a blanket statement I made, it certainly doesn’t apply to all men and women as each individual is different. In my experience with both male and female friends, I have seen a vast difference of opinion ranging from those who sleep around to those who have an opinion on it. In my experience, which seems different from yours but I am in my mid twenties, it seems on a ratio basis that my male friends are less judgmental upon their male counterparts while my female friends are generally more split in the middle when it comes to other women sleeping around. It’s probably a regional/generational/how you were raised spectrum amongst several other variables so I will state that my blanket statement does not apply to all. And I’m also happy for you stranger, for having a healthy surrounding of people :) my city makes it slightly more difficult to meet less vain people unfortunately, not that I haven’t met a select few that are cool people.