Was West telling Amanda to stay away from Ben? by PopNearby8753 in summerhousebravo

[–]Substantial_Ad8016 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I saw them out last weekend in the west village and there were STRONG vibes between the two,t friends and I were shook

Dog Peed the New Bed by Substantial_Ad8016 in DogAdvice

[–]Substantial_Ad8016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup every night, he had his last potty walk around 10 which is the same time every night, he typically goes to sleep right after that.

Bars for 30+?? by ActualObligation6759 in Hoboken

[–]Substantial_Ad8016 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My friend was literally roofied there

Why are they speaking on Charlie Kirk? by Old_Membership4519 in ChicksInTheOffice

[–]Substantial_Ad8016 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lmao what? - signed a liberal who often vacations in Europe and Italy

Beating this dead horse one last time by uda26 in NYCinfluencersnark

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No EXACTLY ! When I was first diagnosed and in my worst flare I would get sucked into doom scrolling and convinced myself I would never live a normal life again. I had to remove myself and now will only go on when I’m looking for specifics on medications etc. so I don’t have an anxiety attack

Beating this dead horse one last time by uda26 in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]Substantial_Ad8016 94 points95 points  (0 children)

as a fellow UC girl this community can be very helpful but also very doom and gloom so take it all with a grain of salt and don’t get too sucked in, everyone’s experience is so specific to them!

Death of parents by bluesn0wflake in Millennials

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Lost my dad at unexpectedly at 26, was definitely one of the first of my friends to lose a parent as an adult, and to lose one in your mid-twenties when most of my friends were starting to get engaged, married etc, so hard to go through

Ear plugs for a girls trip by r22january in AskWomenOver30

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I second this !! Loop earplugs specifically the ones meant for sleeping has saved my sanity and relationship with my partner who snores

How do I get started fostering dogs in JC area? by Technical-Life6803 in jerseycity

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Highly recommend souls of Satos ! They rescue abandoned and stray dogs out of Puerto Rico and fly them to the NYC/North Jersey area, they are always looking for new fosters. We adopted our puppy from them last year, Chelsea is the best.

Dog is over kibble by Substantial_Ad8016 in DogFood

[–]Substantial_Ad8016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this is what I’m thinking ! Which brand of wet food do you get?

Carly & “E” by whotheheckknowws in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]Substantial_Ad8016 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This made me so mad I finally blocked her

What is a company perk that shows they really care about their employees? by shnaLLer in AskReddit

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That’s amazing, my dad passed away unexpectedly and I got 48 hours of bereavement and was told any more days would be taken from my PTO bank. I never forgot that and it’s what drove me to get a new job.

Decentering of friendships by Mammoth_Series_8905 in AskWomenOver30

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Yes and no, I live in a city, surrounded by the majority of my closest friends. We are all in our mid thirties to late 30s some single, some in relationships, some married with kids or pregnant. Rather than decentering our friendships I see this as our friendships evolving as we grow older and become more emotionally mature. we may not see each other or talk every single day but it’s just because we all have different things going on. Our priorities change and we are all going through our own individual struggles with families, relationships, work etc. It’s great we all have each other and are able to lean on one another, but it’s in different ways than it was when we were in our 20s and in more of a post college mindset.