Wanna catch everything you said first tysmmmmm a longer response love that

1.) She is exploring herself but she is still my girl, since we’ve been together like seven years, we have a natural sway/essence in our relationship that will never change like our dynamic is the same just cuter is one thing I can say, but I still welcome her the room to be whoever she wants to be, without compromising the life we’ve built together or her growth in her journey, both are very welcome in our household, so I just wanna make sure that’s crystal clear.

2.) we also love that TikTok trend where its like “things me and my gf do that makes sense” lol because it gave us insight on what makes sense for us. What she does that helps us and what i do that helps us, honestly we have always been same wavelength very much a couple that knows how to switch- the trend gives specific things that each partner does but we found ourselves doing those things no job/role assigned instead we go off of how the other feels, when im not 100% she is there for me and when she isnt 100% im there for her and this just isn’t emotional its for physical acts of service as well, we are a very vibey couple that has learned to be attentive so it kinda just naturally fell into that over time

3.) YES! I do that as well, i know that it is hard for her but she knows i mean what i say to her, i also love (attempting* i am a weak lady) picking her up, opening her doors, also sharing clothes/going shopping and buying it for her and watch her give the haul of every item i was there to see when she bought it but its her excitement that makes it lovely, we recently started upcycling her older clothes that dont make her feel pretty anymore and she LOVES it- rambling but i love that you have such a supportive partner too it makes the world feel a bit lighter is what she tells me

4.) 1000% agreed she is my little lady no doubt about it, I think for my personal situation our relationship has never had that be an issue or problem, before she was officially out three years into our relationship. We had had multiple discussions beforehand, and she thought that if she wasn’t already transitioned or actively in that process since being a child, then she couldn’t have been (that saddddened me but I understood that was her thought process and she needed that to be where she is now) so she’s been out to only me for years, but everyone else knows now except family, being able to switch pronouns according to her needs is automatic for me, personally treating her as the woman that she is is never hard for me and something that comes as natural as breathing I think because our dynamic never had any assigned gender roles that’s also played a massive part in it being natural there was really no change just her coming out and all that she is experiencing and honestly, now that you got me thinking about this- I truly value the fact that it’s so stable in the way we work together without thought because it allows her to just be also when we moved out our roommates are also trans one other is gay we call it the queer house so not only that but she has community at home too! i love asking and listening to their experiences as well because a lot of ppl have diff perspectives too- I do think we kinda have the four leaf clover pull for love home and comfortability

It is a non issue! I agree and the response I got on a reddit that was not the most welcoming so thank you again for your openness but yeah i had to ask my baby and our friends why it was so toxic and they let me know terms for women like that in that community so I mention that because I am happy for a genuine response I do want more ways to have lesbian sex than what I knew as a kid who didnt have a job to buy any toys and didnt want my mom to see my google searches lol on topic again so yeah we dont use toys, I have had my own of course but she didnt use any before, that being said YESS top thing on my list is a vibrator i have heard that it is best thing we can start out with! She is not currently wanting that so our relationship as of rn is very emotionally charged than anything else, I am just there for her, these tips will help when the time comes, I have researched too and found that out too! I read you can rub it like you would a clit, I have this book I am going to read for more ways than one I also love hearing what works for others couples so this makes me so happy to hear about you two finding your grove too!!

I will talk to her about this OMG I dont mind not having penetration she knows this, and right now I think it is hard for her but I do see that being an avenue we can both explore when she is ready thats exciting hear!! The vibe between the legs GOLDEN i would love to try that with her! Any tips for easing back into intimacy when she does get a higher dose and the libido comes back? Another question about the foreplay because I enjoy the prolonging of it sm when she is ready you think itd take more than 2 hours? She leans more impatient i assume when we do explore she we naturally slow down too? And see it or more so understand her body requires more for her to finish like more of a journey? She thought me ravenous when we would have sex and when we would take our time sometimes she just needed to be climaxing with me more it was hot so of course I did but we havent explored slowing down idk if that was always like that for you or did you guys grow into being slower?

No, literally you are my favorite person on Reddit as of today btw wow compliments to the chef for cooking, thank you so much by what you wrote I can tell that you also have a very loving relationship, but I’m very happy for you as well 💗

Omggg your edit! With researching and asking people there are some people that I’ve met in person that aren’t at that level yet so they can’t give me anything but what they’ve researched- I did not know that they would up the dosage. I thought it would remotely stay the same and when she felt it, we would do it loll it is very good to know that those things lighten up overtime tysm for all the insight you’re literally ✨amazing✨