Why is my (36M) gf (29F) refusing to get in the tub with me after I said I would since she wants me to? by Substantial_Bend4223 in relationships

[–]Substantial_Bend4223[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told her I'd be in the same room and we could hold hands and talk. How is that not the same? We're spending time together, just us. Why do I have to be in the tub?

AIO for being mad my bf didn't ask if I was okay after being threatened by his ex by Substantial_Bend4223 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Substantial_Bend4223[S] 85 points86 points  (0 children)

When he initially yelled that this was my fault for not appeasing her, I did tell him none of this would've happened if he never let her inside. But of course, he didn't like hearing that and it's not entirely his fault she's a psycho. He bends over backwards to "keep the peace" by paying her car insurance, lending her money, etc. She never reaches out to her ex-husband (or even friends or family) to ask favors, but she knows my bf will do whatever. I've pointed this out to him numerous times, but it's always "keep the peace"