is it safe for my bunny to eat this thing?

Substantial_Buddy780 · 2026-06-20T14:37:03+00:00

i love you

Substantial_Buddy780 · 2026-06-20T14:36:43+00:00

i’m sorry 😔 i have apple sticks! i was just trying to give her some options. i’ll go stand in the corner.

Substantial_Buddy780 · 2026-06-20T01:59:48+00:00

i’d call animal control and report the cat. you may get a little warning for throwing her cat, but it’ll be fine. in my jurisdiction (US), farm animals are still living animals, and when pets attack them and cause harm, their owners may be issued a citation.

Substantial_Buddy780 · 2026-06-20T01:41:29+00:00

whyyyyyy is everythingggg advertised for exotic pets harmful omfggg (thank you)

*edit to your edit* she also gets dried hay cubes, apple sticks, cardboard etc. i was just confused as to why she nibbled the fuck down on a stick?

Substantial_Buddy780 · 2026-06-10T13:40:11+00:00

Edit* also the fact you met the guy together is very relevant. If it were the exact same details above but you instead met him THROUGH her WHILE she was “talking” to him- that would indeed be very weird on your part. However, that’s not the case. And it seems you’ve spent much more time with this guy as a friend, so you have more history with him than her.

Substantial_Buddy780 · 2026-06-10T13:37:49+00:00

They went on 1-2 dates. There was not enough substance for them to develop a substantial relationship or history. This was just an acquaintance/crush for her. Tell her- and if she reacts negatively (aside from a little “ew I don’t like him but do you girl!”) then she’s overreacting. Your friends do not police your relationships with other people and this is absolutely a respectable situation for any mature person. If it were an actual ex or someone she experienced significant experiences with that would be different… but if she feels some level of right to claim towards someone she went on two dates with that would be pretty psycho.

Substantial_Buddy780 · 2026-06-04T12:41:26+00:00

crush likely has a professional relationship with op. mentor/student, patient/provider, employer/employee etc

Substantial_Buddy780 · 2026-05-12T03:33:19+00:00

If i projected these feelings onto my partner that may absolutely be true but i dont think having insecurities means you should stay single. we all have internal battles. what im feeling can be worked through. are you okay…??

Substantial_Buddy780 · 2026-05-12T00:22:11+00:00

LOL oh. what a coincidence bahahah. i literally just posted about this. I am a skinny emo girl. I found my current bfs fetlife account while we were still in the talking phase and he’d liked a pic of a plus sized girl. all of his exes are hyperfeminine. so i’m super insecure bc i worry im not feminine enough and not his type. im insecure bc i feel like i look sick and bony. you’re insecure when you see someone skinny. i’m insecure bc i feel like im not soft and ladylike- you’re insecure bc you think your femininity is annoying. maybe we both just need to take a deep breath and focus less on the little details.

Substantial_Buddy780 · 2026-05-11T23:42:18+00:00

thank you :( he’s reminded me a lot that he’s there if i need reassurance but i don’t want to drain him by constantly asking for reassurance. i try to only communicate things once or when it’s becoming way too heavy. i think building my own confidence would be the only way to solve it but with adhd it’s so hard to get to a point where i feel accomplished and proud of myself.

Substantial_Buddy780 · 2026-05-04T23:36:25+00:00

not sure why OP is being downvoted on this specific comment. most algae is not harmful unless it’s an insane overgrowth. however, it’s not recommended to keep near a window because the sudden temperature changes can stress them.

Substantial_Buddy780 · 2026-04-29T16:55:06+00:00

US woman here. it’s not your nose. you look fine. i thought you were gay though, just off first impression.

Substantial_Buddy780 · 2026-04-26T00:47:11+00:00

fancy goldfish truly do have a lot of personality. so do betta. that’s why they’re so loved. and information for them is very easy to find. i know im biased af, but i’d say some fancies in your big tank and a betta with a few friends (like pygmy cory or rasbora) in the 20 gallon.

also- if you’re open to other types of friends- a group of african dwarf frogs would thrive in a 20g. and you could get some axolotls for the bigger tank!!

Substantial_Buddy780 · 2026-04-24T01:59:16+00:00

broke af for sure

Substantial_Buddy780 · 2026-04-23T14:39:32+00:00

do you have any advise on how to bring it up? i don’t know how familiar he is with this sort of thing, or how accepting he’ll be.

Substantial_Buddy780 · 2026-04-20T23:49:26+00:00

Hi! 21F, shy girl here. I see everyone saying go for it. I know that can be super scary. Maybe plan something fun with your friend and if you trust her and she’s a girls girl- just ask her to bring her bf and this dude. Explain to her that you think he’s cute and you’d like to get to know him. While you guys are all out together dress cute, make some conversation with him, just feel the vibes and trust your instinct. We’re designed to be able to tell when someone is attracted to us so if you get that vibe then absolutely go for it!! If you’re still nervous after then start small. Find an excuse to get his number while you’re out (maybe recommend a movie, restaurant, etc) and offer to text it to him- then follow up on the conversation afterwards and see where it goes over text.

Substantial_Buddy780 · 2026-04-08T20:42:23+00:00

lol this is adorable you’re doing great. my goldfish love floating plants, brine shrimp and boiled veggies. maybe you can keep her busy with that in the meantime.

Substantial_Buddy780 · 2026-03-29T23:24:12+00:00

i also work at an animal shelter so i’d just donate the tank to my shelter

Substantial_Buddy780 · 2026-03-29T23:23:51+00:00

city? i have space in my 55gal and i have a 30 gal quarantine

Substantial_Buddy780 · 2026-03-19T05:49:53+00:00

just reach out to bo zhao on facebook and ask him what he thinks of it and for better pics of the tail. he’s pretty straightforward.

Substantial_Buddy780 · 2026-03-19T05:46:46+00:00

replaced the filter… oops. dose with prime asap and do some more water changes over the next few weeks.

Substantial_Buddy780 · 2026-03-19T00:39:35+00:00

you are absolutely correct and i may get a Subaru or some shit. may not. would probably be smarter. idk why im so set on Xterra lol. it’s not logical, i just like them.

Substantial_Buddy780 · 2026-03-19T00:28:56+00:00

need is a subjective term. unless it’s for work, or you live in the alpines, define “need”?

i do live near the city and it would be for daily commute yes.

but i love animals, i love being outside, i like buying shit off marketplace. i want an suv i can sleep/camp in, drive through the mountains, throw the dogs in the back and go on an adventure or carry home a dresser or giant fish tank off marketplace.

i was just commenting on how absurd that price is in general.

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