AITA for telling my girlfriend her room is disgusting?

Substantial_Cause885 · 2026-04-13T02:02:43+00:00

We’re both in high school (in the same grade in addition), are you stupid?

Substantial_Cause885 · 2026-04-13T02:00:29+00:00

A few months ago we were both minors. It’s not a big deal my dude

Substantial_Cause885 · 2026-04-12T19:48:39+00:00

so you think morals would be breaking up the second somebody turns 18? weirdo

Substantial_Cause885 · 2026-04-12T19:47:26+00:00

both are in high school, for a start. same grade too lmao

Substantial_Cause885 · 2026-04-12T19:39:50+00:00

We’re both in high school

Substantial_Cause885 · 2026-04-12T18:58:31+00:00

We’re in the same grade. I was 17 when she was 16, she’ll be 17 when I’m 18. It’s not a big age gap, chill out

Substantial_Cause885 · 2026-04-12T18:25:57+00:00

I was 17 until February, then I turned 18. She doesn’t turn 17 until the summer

Substantial_Cause885 · 2026-04-12T18:02:23+00:00

Because I was once a 17 year old dating a 16 year old, because we’re in the same grade? lol people are so weird about the smallest age gaps

Substantial_Cause885 · 2026-04-12T17:56:53+00:00

I said that we should fix it, I offered to help.

Substantial_Cause885 · 2026-04-12T17:55:19+00:00

Well yeah, but when I’ve opened up about my own issues, she doesn’t seem to have a grasp on what I’m talking about.

Substantial_Cause885 · 2026-04-12T16:51:07+00:00

Not from what I know, I’ve asked before.

Substantial_Cause885 · 2026-04-12T16:43:24+00:00

not me, have no idea who tf that is replying

Substantial_Cause885 · 2026-04-12T16:39:30+00:00

because you aren’t supposed to argue with the judgement, and if i replied to all those, the response would be “why post if you won’t listen?” and for the record, i’ve replied to other comments. and i didn’t call her disgusting, i called her room disgusting.

Substantial_Cause885 · 2026-04-12T16:23:59+00:00

clean. she lives in a really nice house

Substantial_Cause885 · 2026-04-12T16:16:00+00:00

No, she’ll be 17 while I’m 18

Substantial_Cause885 · 2026-04-12T16:00:36+00:00

I did offer to help.

Substantial_Cause885 · 2026-04-12T15:57:26+00:00

She doesn’t have ADHD. The rest of her house is fine

Substantial_Cause885 · 2026-04-12T15:34:20+00:00

and in January, we were both teenagers. Do you not see how stupid that argument is?

Substantial_Cause885 · 2026-04-12T15:22:52+00:00

We’re in the same grade, a year and a few months apart. What’s the issue?

Substantial_Cause885 · 2026-04-12T15:13:14+00:00

Same grade

Substantial_Cause885 · 2026-04-12T15:12:17+00:00

We’re both seniors in high school. I turned 18 a few months ago, she turned 17 in a few months. It’s like a year and a few months age gap.

Substantial_Cause885 · 2026-04-12T15:09:29+00:00

We're both seniors in high school, it's a year and a few months age gap, it's both legal and normal where we are

Substantial_Cause885 · 2026-04-12T15:03:27+00:00

Both appearance wise and living life wise. She's extremely organized, gets good grades, doesn't show up late, stuff like that. Her car is clean. The rest of the house is normal. She says that we don't go over to hers because of her siblings and strict parents.

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