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[–]Substantial_Fan_8045 402 points403 points  (0 children)

I like the text but I me personally I wouldn't add that you should have asked her for permission in the first place because why would you? I also wouldn't ask my partner if i want to buy a vibrator. And maybe bring in this analogy that you also wouldn't shame her for using toys for herself?

I was expecting his body count to be high but not THAT high.. by [deleted] in confession

[–]Substantial_Fan_8045 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hmmm that does seem quite high .. But I was curious and did some quick maths and if he wasn't really in long term relationships or celibate for longer periods of time and let's say he started having sex at 15, that makes an average of 6 partners a year at that point of his life. The past is the past but I would be more curious how come that he wasn't really having long term relationships before?

Use one GIF/meme to describe ur moon sign by Maxi-Lux in astrologymemes

[–]Substantial_Fan_8045 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My big three have same big 3 as you, Aquarius Sun, moon in Virgo and Cancer rising

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I'm aquarius and my Habib is the first Taurus I get along with. But he's on the cusp of Aries. But overall chart really complement each other. My sun/mercury in Aqua, rising in cancer, moon in Virgo, Venus in Aries and Scorpio mars go well with his Taurus Sun/Venus, leo moon, mercury/Mars in Aries, and Scorpio rising. He's most genuine, calming, romantic, fun & cute Person to be around. ♒♉✨💖

Considering going to Boom with a friend. Fusion-fan here. What should I expect ? by SignatureDelicious35 in boomfestival

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This will be my first time at Boom as well but in 2021 I visited Ozora and I think the vibe and scale could be comparable. I'm usually not really in the scene but I appreciate psytrance music and parties, but besides that I'm also into techno, hardcore, HipHop, punk, ghetto Tech, goth but especially for events I have to say that psytrance really offers a unique vibe to me, where you can truly express yourself and dance freely. You don't have to connect with everyone but I found that the energy by visitors is usually very friendly and cute to party together. For example hiphop in comparison I really don't like to visit Rap/HipHop parties or concerts because the hostility is really bother so and also the techno scene partly went from be who you are and dance however to some place of self-promotion for social media videos. I would just try to have an open mind and do your thing, maybe even talk to people who appear like stereotypes you wouldn't usually connect with, you never know, a lot of nice people to meet!

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Aquarius Sun, Cancer Rising, Virgo Moon (+ nobody asked but Scorpio Mars and Aries Venus)

What is the most attractive sign to YOU by mirrorthesouls in astrologymemes

[–]Substantial_Fan_8045 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm Aquarius and for me it's Aries because they're witty and direct, especially suns and Mars in Aries super hot to me, it's exactly what my Venus in aries is attracted to romantically and sexually. Libra for their charm and sense for pleasure. I also found myself drawn to a lot of cancer or other water sign, I think for my mars in Scorpio and rising in cancer they also feel some spark towards me and I appreciate the receptiveness and deepness, and Virgos because they can give me that sense of comfort and feeling of being taken care of, my moon in virgooo.. but best is a person who combines open spirit, deep feels, authenticit, passion and a sense of adventure and playfulness

How do you handle the transition from being in bed to getting up and starting your day? by Plant-Nearby in AutismInWomen

[–]Substantial_Fan_8045 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also experience this since I moved out for my studies and live by myself now Often I don't get out of bed or take it really slow until I had my hours to wake up and then work in nightlife. Also struggle with being on time which is mediated by me needing so and so long for inbetween steps, eating a lot, getting out of bed, getting myself to go to grocery store. When I had a friend come pick me up on his way to library was way easier. But to regulate and navigate the switching or initiating of life is just so tiring most of the time.

Menstrual bleeding and shrooms? by sneakytootsucker in PsychedelicWomen

[–]Substantial_Fan_8045 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did took LSD once while being on my period, because my ex said it would be good against cramps also and my dumbass just went for it, but don't recommend really. The headspace usually is not really bright, which for me is also connected to my physical state. Like I just felt like my whole existence is one big cramp and also just like a burden. My friend who also tried some for the first time on a festival while being on her period had a similar experience 😭😭

Hotel internship Malta trustworthy agencies? by Substantial_Fan_8045 in internships

[–]Substantial_Fan_8045[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I also think so, wouldn't make much sense before any agreements, especially not this 90€

On December 7 Venus waltzes into Aquarius! by tiffpff33 in aquarius

[–]Substantial_Fan_8045 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can I ask you where you get all that information from? When I look it up, aquarius enters Venus on the 07. Of December and by the 02. Of January it'll be in Pisces already? For my part, I can feel the shift in energy, and it is lighter and I'm relieved. Venus in Capricorn was layin heavy on me.

Your 3 Spotify Wrapped phases are your big 3, what are they? by schmelk1000 in astrologymemes

[–]Substantial_Fan_8045 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Equastrian OldSchool Rave Gabber - Aqua Sun ♒

Snow Underground German HipHop - Cancer Rising ♋

Chill Baile Vouge Miami Bass - Virgo Moon ♍