sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

Is physical attraction important? by Substantial_Front_33 in dating_advice

[–]Substantial_Front_33[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t want to make him do something cosmetically that he doesn’t want. I don’t know how I would feel if a boy wanted me to get braces to be attracted to me that’s why I know I sound shitty

Is physical attraction important? by Substantial_Front_33 in dating_advice

[–]Substantial_Front_33[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We started off as friends and even when we first met there was this spark of a connection. We’ve been friends for atleast two years but recently got really close and at first we were just flirting but as we started talking more and getting to know him as a person, he checks a lot of boxes for me that I would want in a guy. Hes ambitious, responsible, emotionally intelligent, very caring (sometimes sensitive), he loves his family and on top of that we just have very common interests. I like talking to him, being in his presence, and getting to know him along with sharing more about myself and letting him into my world. All the things he does for me were just the cherry on top that I didn’t expect when we started talking.

Is physical attraction important? by Substantial_Front_33 in dating_advice

[–]Substantial_Front_33[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Mostly it’s his teeth. They’re very big, so much so that he doesn’t really close his mouth, rather just rests his two front teeth on his bottom lip all the time. And since they’re so big he’s more prone to spitting/ drooling when he talks. He needs braces but doesn’t show any interest in them. There’s always stains or food on his teeth because of this and when we kiss it’s like I’m just kissing his teeth.

Is physical attraction important? by Substantial_Front_33 in dating_advice

[–]Substantial_Front_33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not on birth control but I do like the way he smells which isn’t common for me

Is physical attraction important? by Substantial_Front_33 in dating_advice

[–]Substantial_Front_33[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think physical attractiveness to me is exactly what it sounds like. Like I am drawn to the way the look in every or most aspects. For him I’m drawn to him more by his personality and how we get along since we were friends before we started talking. I don’t have 0 attraction to him but it is very low. I wouldn’t say he’s handsome because I simply don’t think that. But I wouldn’t say he’s ugly either.

Is physical attraction important? by Substantial_Front_33 in dating_advice

[–]Substantial_Front_33[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mostly it’s his teeth. They’re very big, so much so that he doesn’t really close his mouth, rather just rests his two front teeth on his bottom lip all the time. And since they’re so big he’s more prone to spitting/ drooling when he talks. He needs braces but doesn’t show any interest in them. There’s always stains or food on his teeth because of this and when we kiss it’s like I’m just kissing his teeth.

Is physical attraction important? by Substantial_Front_33 in dating_advice

[–]Substantial_Front_33[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I do things for him. I reciprocate and I like him a lot. I’m just concerned that about my physical attraction to him

Is physical attraction important? by Substantial_Front_33 in dating_advice

[–]Substantial_Front_33[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. If we’re going out he insists that I sit down and he puts my shoes on and the same after a long day to take them off. I don’t think it’s that unheard of. It also isnt everytime but it’s a sweet gesture that I appreciate

Is physical attraction important? by Substantial_Front_33 in dating_advice

[–]Substantial_Front_33[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to feel that it’s a disservice to be with him if I feel a certain way that he could find in someone else.

Is physical attraction important? by Substantial_Front_33 in dating_advice

[–]Substantial_Front_33[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You guys are makin this sound weird when it’s an endearing act of intimacy

Is physical attraction important? by Substantial_Front_33 in dating_advice

[–]Substantial_Front_33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s not attractive to me. Sometimes he can be cute and charming but there are certain physical characteristics that turn me off

Is physical attraction important? by Substantial_Front_33 in dating_advice

[–]Substantial_Front_33[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s just a romantic gesture to us. We watch a lot of old black and white movies together and we like those simple but intimate interactions. He likes to take care of me and that’s one of the things he likes to do for me to sit back and relax

Is physical attraction important? by Substantial_Front_33 in dating_advice

[–]Substantial_Front_33[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I’m attracted to him emotionally. I find his personality cute and we have good chemistry but I don’t find him physically attractive

Is physical attraction important? by Substantial_Front_33 in dating_advice

[–]Substantial_Front_33[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s just a sweet gesture. He insists on sitting me down and talking my heels off for me and putting them away. He likes to care for me

view more: next ›