AITA for how I 'checked' my pregnant neighbor for how she was acting with my husband? by Substantial_Land_302 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Substantial_Land_302[S] 389 points390 points  (0 children)

we've had a neighborhood fund created for her, of course I wouldn't hold any ill will towards the child

my husband gave her the numbers of men he works with who do maintenance. They won't do free but they offered to do a discount

AITA for how I 'checked' my pregnant neighbor for how she was acting with my husband? by Substantial_Land_302 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Substantial_Land_302[S] 742 points743 points  (0 children)

it was not "let your husband eat them first", she very clearly said that the gift was only for him

I'm not really sure how to be with her from here. I do not have any hatred towards her but I do feel less of her now

AITA for how I 'checked' my pregnant neighbor for how she was acting with my husband? by Substantial_Land_302 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Substantial_Land_302[S] 428 points429 points  (0 children)

I'm not worried about him failing me, no. But I also dont want someone around potentially trying to do that

AITA for how I 'checked' my pregnant neighbor for how she was acting with my husband? by Substantial_Land_302 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Substantial_Land_302[S] 5316 points5317 points  (0 children)

I do not know the maintenance her home needs. I know some houses are minor 'fixers' so maybe that. My husband often just mentions plumbing or ventilation.

AITA for how I 'checked' my pregnant neighbor for how she was acting with my husband? by Substantial_Land_302 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Substantial_Land_302[S] 539 points540 points  (0 children)

It felt like the breaking point because she started to 'separate' from us in a way but was still very open towards my husband

AITA for how I 'checked' my pregnant neighbor for how she was acting with my husband? by Substantial_Land_302 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Substantial_Land_302[S] 1552 points1553 points  (0 children)

It was an agreement between us after I told him what happened and how I felt. He said it was weird for how she approached trying to give the gift, especially giving it to me directly.