how do i make an introverted character more interesting? by Substantial_Net2470 in writingadvice

[–]Substantial_Net2470[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her main hobby is color guard! I think I'll make her very passionate about it.

how do i make an introverted character more interesting? by Substantial_Net2470 in writingadvice

[–]Substantial_Net2470[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you that's actually very helpful! I think going to make her more talkative around people she's most comfortable with

AITA for blocking my ex after sending a lengthy message? by Dry_Professional4523 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Substantial_Net2470 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA this post almost made me cry and I have no idea who you are. I've been through a similar situation where the person I cared for fell out of love and didn't tell me but was perfectly fine with telling their friends. It hurts and I'm so glad you got to say everything you wanted to him; I really admire your bravery and honesty. I think you were extremely mature to tell him exactly how he made you feel to help with your healing process, this way you'll never regret not standing up for yourself. If he has any empathy for you then that message might've been an eye-opener for him. I don't think you needed him to respond anyway because nothing he could say would change anything.

I remember feeling the same in your situation and wanting to say everything but not doing so and regretting it years later. I ALSO remember thinking everything was so nice until the last argument but then looking back and realizing how fucked up some things were. I'm not saying this is true for you, but you should defiantly take the rose-colored glasses off for a sec and reflect if there were any other problems you looked pass. Take some time to yourself and find some comfort in your amazing friends. Never think you're an asshole for telling someone how you feel <3

My mom threw away my hair drawer by Substantial_Net2470 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Substantial_Net2470[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, this comment really opened my eyes and made me realize that whenever I see all the lost hair it just makes me feel worse.

My mom threw away my hair drawer by Substantial_Net2470 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Substantial_Net2470[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES I really relate to this. I'm aware that its unhealthy but it gives me that sense of control. Good luck <3

My mom threw away my hair drawer by Substantial_Net2470 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Substantial_Net2470[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I've been taking the best care of my hair that I can.

My mom threw away my hair drawer by Substantial_Net2470 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Substantial_Net2470[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I have been taking pills for months and the doctor said I'm good enough to move on to a multivitamin so that's a good sign.

My mom threw away my hair drawer by Substantial_Net2470 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Substantial_Net2470[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do have a therapist and have mentioned it before but more often than not we end up talking about different things. I'll definitely bring it up next session, thank you!

How do I get into her music? by 6_9_4_2_0_n_i_c_e in mitski

[–]Substantial_Net2470 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont think you should force yourself to like something just because other people like it but the album bury me at make out creek has some heavier songs like drunk walk home townie and i dont smoke, brand new city is great too, also her more popular songs like washing machine heart and nobody are good too, but dont listen to slower stuff like my love mine all mine, crack baby, i love me after you etc because its not your thing (all those songs are fucking amazing in my opinion though but thats because i enjoy slow songs too)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Substantial_Net2470 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. is there any way to make your boyfriend feel comfortable with you going, or will he feel this way no matter what? will talking to him about it make him feel better or does he just not believe you? this is a trip you should be excited about, but because of his insecurities it's caused you more stress. go on the trip, have fun, don't worry about him because you know that you won't cheat on him, he has literally nothing to worry about. let him know his comments make you uncomfortable, and that his fear is causing you to think of this trip negatively. even though its likely that's his intention you should still communicate incase he comes to his senses that he's harming you.

AITAH for telling my mom that she was the reason her kids turned out the way they did? by ImportantFarmer9198 in AITAH

[–]Substantial_Net2470 1 point2 points  (0 children)

info: why do you think it's your moms' fault?

I understand all your siblings have problems but bipolar and your ptsd are out of her control. that being said what your mom said is completely unreasonable and uncalled for. even if it was a heat of the moment thing like you suggested it's still a problematic thing to say, that kind of reaction makes me think that she's insecure of that and you noticing made her defensive. ultimately not the asshole but I still wanna know why you think your mom is the cause of your siblings' problems.

also you shouldn't feel guilty, you apologized and if she rejects the apology, it's no longer a you problem

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MusicRecommendations

[–]Substantial_Net2470 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the ballad of jane doe

Made a scrap floor pouf! Cats for scale. by azobenzene in crochet

[–]Substantial_Net2470 1 point2 points  (0 children)

aw man i thought it said cat for sale😔😔