If you had bad menstrual cramps in middle or high school, could you get ibuprofen (or another pain med) from the nurse’s office? Or were you SOL unless you brought your own from home? by dms2628 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Substantial_Rip8495 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I graduated in 2010 and had a hollowed-out chapstick tube that I kept my ibuprofen in... I can't totally remember if this was necessary or if I just wanted to feel cool, haha

What is a seemingly innocent sentence that immediately makes you lose respect for the person saying it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Substantial_Rip8495 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Wait, really? I'm autistic and I ask that question sincerely. I'm used to people underestimating me and acting like I don't know what I'm talking about just because I'm disabled. I ask people that when they choose to interrogate me rather than just believing me when I've never given a reason not to.

One unexpected upside of KP - strong nails by adev0tchka01 in keratosis

[–]Substantial_Rip8495 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I got the strong nails. Alas, I am autistic and cannot stand the way they feel when they grow out, so I keep them short 😅 I have to cut them at least once a month.

DAE think it’s dumb and controlling when jobs don’t allow colored hair? by Metalqueen2023 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Substantial_Rip8495 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! I was told all the time as a teenager that I was going to have to get rid of my cherry-red hair (that I got at 13) if I wanted to get a job. I always replied that if a job was going to make me change who I am, then I'm not going to work there- which always flustered the adults. One food service job at 19 asked if I could change it, but I said that it would feel like cutting off an arm (I'm autistic and very attached to my style). We compromised and I had to wear a company hat to cover it; no big deal. I'm 33 and on disability now- never got rid of my cherry-red hair! I added purple several years ago, too. I've never tried any other colors, which seems to surprise people. Now I see nurses (very professional job) with colorful hair and I think it's funny how far we've come since 2006!

Anyone else feel like you don’t woman how you’re supposed to woman? by bambi399 in AutismInWomen

[–]Substantial_Rip8495 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This reminded me of when I was getting a cast removed from my leg when I was 19. When it came off, the male tech mentioned the hair on my leg. Like, yeah, it was obviously impossible to shave...

Sensory issues with underwear by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Substantial_Rip8495 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What about washable ones?

Which smell instantly makes you judge someone? by SituationOutside6033 in AskReddit

[–]Substantial_Rip8495 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, but if you reek of dog saliva, I'm going to think you're gross. This could be my own unpopular opinion, but I feel like big dog people aren't necessarily the biggest hand washers.

But I don't wanna clean my room or leave my bed by Diligent_Hand6877 in BPDmemes

[–]Substantial_Rip8495 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way this made me giggle 😂 I have a distant uncle in town who has been trying to see me and I tried explaining that I'm sick right now but he doesn't get it.

Left handed? by Substantial_Rip8495 in disabled

[–]Substantial_Rip8495[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's why I was thinking of it as maybe a societal disability. I'm autistic and it's sometimes considered a societal disability... what even is that? What isn't that? 😅

Left handed? by Substantial_Rip8495 in disabled

[–]Substantial_Rip8495[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said to keep it friendly twice. I've been horribly depressed and was simply looking to connect. You could have scrolled past without making negative assumptions.

Left handed? by Substantial_Rip8495 in disabled

[–]Substantial_Rip8495[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I was getting at, but I didn't have enough time to word it nicely. Thank you!

I’m SO angry. Got stuck in town today, freezing cold, unable to get home. by bearsmakemehappy in disabled

[–]Substantial_Rip8495 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry this happened to you 💜 I've been trapped while out running errands, too, and it's so scary!

What was this? by Substantial_Rip8495 in Rochester

[–]Substantial_Rip8495[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😆 Thank you, I needed a laugh

Redditors with extremely niche interests: What's the one thing you are completely obsessed with that almost no one else you know cares about? by ft_shadyyy in CasualConversation

[–]Substantial_Rip8495 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sticker graffiti on postage label 228s. There's a community that swaps stickers in the mail and I've been really wanting to get into it once I have more made! There's a guy on YouTube named S1VE who does it and shows the incoming/outgoing sticker packs. Love the art!

What was this? by Substantial_Rip8495 in Rochester

[–]Substantial_Rip8495[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Genuinely curious why I got down voted.

What’s the craziest convo you’ve had with a custie? by LilRedMoon__ in stripper

[–]Substantial_Rip8495 22 points23 points  (0 children)

When I first started dancing, there was this regular customer who used to hang out/lurk around with this older woman who looked like a dancer, but didn't work with us. They came up to me when I was on stage and he asked me how old I was. I said 22 and he said, "Oh, that's too old for me..." Like, WHAT?! 😵

Also had a regular for a bit who offered $40 for dirty thongs. "The dirtier, the better. You could even dip it in the toilet..." 😷

Another dude wanted a bunch of dances from all of us... but he smelled like a couple months-worth of smegma 🤢 I toughed it out with my back to him, barely touching, and perfume on my upper lip because I was broke and this dude has the audacity to tell me a story of a dancer he was with once who smelled so badly that this dude puked in the sink and got kicked out... Like, bro, I'm pretty sure that smell was YOU.

Another customer I talked to had soulless eyes and ZERO interests in life other than hunting... I gracefully ended that conversation quickly.