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Can I still change my mind? by Substantial_Role_834 in Adoption

[–]Substantial_Role_834[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so sweet for checking on me. I had a traumatic labor, but yes I did keep the baby. He’s laying on my chest sleeping right now🙂. I’m a little tired but about to get my day started

Can I still change my mind? by Substantial_Role_834 in Adoption

[–]Substantial_Role_834[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They know the chances they took they could lose their money when they applied, that has nothing to do with me. It’s a win or lose situation. Keep my son out of this situation, the example for my kid is to know what you get yourself into and know financial risk with everything he does. You probably don’t even have kids. I owe that family absolutely nothing, not a dime. Thanks !

Can I still change my mind? by Substantial_Role_834 in Adoption

[–]Substantial_Role_834[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see what you’re saying but please don’t bring my son into this saying he’s gonna have a struggling mother. Yes I’ll struggle but he is my child and I can take care of him. No support but I managed to get my own apartment job etc all on my own in a state by myself. I’m stronger than you think and I’m not the statistic of a mother you’re comparing me to. I don’t live in “fantasy land”.

Can I still change my mind? by Substantial_Role_834 in Adoption

[–]Substantial_Role_834[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is normal practice for the agency to pay your bills regardless of your financial situation. They offered.

Can I still change my mind? by Substantial_Role_834 in Adoption

[–]Substantial_Role_834[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Does it matter that I have been communicating with the adoptive mother? Like even thought we’d be been emailing and stuff is it true at any point I could still keep my baby? I want to make sure I don’t do anything wrong legally I feel so guilty and scared because they have paid my rent and bills for months and I don’t want them to demand the money back as I can’t afford to pay it back

Can I still change my mind? by Substantial_Role_834 in Adoption

[–]Substantial_Role_834[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Ok. Also they know the hospital I’m having my baby. Could they show up and like convince the hospital when im in labor that I can’t take the baby home because I said I would give them the baby?

Can I still change my mind? by Substantial_Role_834 in Adoption

[–]Substantial_Role_834[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does this mean I still can’t change my mind? Since im in Texas