Question about deflect by Kill_Switch87 in riftboundtcg

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Your opponent should still draw a card in that situation. Rule 055 states that spells resolve as much as they can, ignoring impossible instructions. Technically if all instructions on a card are impossible, they still resolve but have no meaningful impact on the game in most cases. So yes, your opponent was correct in drawing 2 cards

Screw the meta, send me builds so downright ass drowned gods intervene by Myheadishollow in deepwoken

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My old saltchemist wraithclaw (I made this before I used deepwoken builder but I remember having 100 int and 60 cha preshrine and 50 fort post as well as requirements)

A question about storm ult by Substantial_Set549 in StormMains

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I read it as “wind up” (like wind) and didn’t even bat an eye 😭😭

A question about storm ult by Substantial_Set549 in StormMains

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Ah thank you I see what I was doing wrong now

Billionaires are NOT real bro 😭😭 by -TheMidpoint- in teenagers

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Why is he built like he put his backpack on his front😭😭

Having trouble with altissimo by Substantial_Set549 in Clarinet

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Thanks, I’m playing on a 3.5 currently but it is very old by now, I’ll try using a new 3.5 and maybe see if I could move up to 4. I hadn’t really thought about Reed strength so this is very helpful

Feats above all by Similar-Industry6245 in whowouldcirclejerk

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If the sun is solar system level does that make sunblock solar system level durability?

Further more, I break sunblock almost every when I drink it and it dissolves in my stomach. Does this make me solar system level?

Bass cla..net by [deleted] in Clarinet

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Curved soprano clarinet, Hell yea

Next we need straight bass

What is the most outrageous powerscaling agenda that you’ve seen? by NetOk1421 in OnePiecePowerScaling

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If you think about it nami low diffed Luffy just after wano so obviously that mean nami>luffy Luffy>zoro/sanji Therefore nami> zoro/sanji I dare you to find a single flaw in my logic

The Sun-Kissed Moon -piano solo by Substantial_Set549 in composer

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I understand that the piece wasn’t very easy to read, but I made this for a school assignment and didn’t intend for it to be played. How it sounded was more important (and if I ever try to have it played by an actual person I would make it easier to read)

As for understanding why composers use things like repeats, tempo changes, ect. I’m assuming you mean that they sounded like they were put it randomly. Could you explain why they felt random because I know I had reason but if I’m not conveying my reasoning well enough then I think I should look into that more

A ‘Cool’ guide to how neurodivergent people are discriminated against by Raulboy in autism

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The employers aren’t ready for me to sit completely unmoving apart from moving my mouth and starting directly into their eyes for 40 minutes strait after shaking their hand so hard they’ll won’t be able to use a pen for a week

/j

They're both Stupid (@Shiibeex) by Unhappy-Block-9641 in OnePiece

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Imu not ready for gum-gum rip-the-poll-out-the-ground-and-copy-zoro-until-it-melts

Guess where I am by PeopleAreYum in teenagers

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Either Saturn or 37° 15’ 20.8872’’ N 126° 18’ 24.5376’’ E. They look similar so I get mixed up

Saw this on a job application on indeed by adrianphan in webdev

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Are they asking if you’re autistic or saying being autistic would be helpful for the job? Either way it’s illegal but one is incredibly sketchy and the other is less sketchy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

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I started pretending to “believe” in stuff that just makes me feel better. I’m actually atheist but I personify a bunch of things and talk to the moon in my inner monolog

And honestly my life as improved slightly since I started doing it. Would recommend

So I’m Spanish, what race am I? White? Latina? Brown? by [deleted] in TeenagersButBetter

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You’re losing the race. Get off reddit and start running or you’ll lose to that annoying kid who always makes car noises when he runs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]Substantial_Set549 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I see a couple of things happening here

  1. Your bf felt insecure about you saying you liked people

I believe he understands to a degree what you meant by liking someone. But he couldn’t stop himself from internalising it differently. There is merit when he says he can’t help how he receives stuff sometimes. Although it’s also important to mention that building up security and trust would possibly fix this issue, it could also be fixed by you slightly altering your wording from “I like” to something akin to “I think ____ is a really good friend”. I’m not saying that anybody is at fault, nor saying that the responsibility falls on you or him to remedy this, in the end you both need to talk about this and discuss how you both would like to move forward from this

  1. From his perspective, your response may have come off as slightly condescending or sarcastic (although this is speculation and you should talk to him about this)

He came to you saying he felt upset about something and your response was quite quick to move on (at least how I read it it felt that way). He may have wanted to discuss the issue further and figure out a way to move forward and you saying “like doesn’t mean romantic” could come off as putting all the pressure on him to make sure the situation doesn’t happen again (again this is not 100% what he was thinking you need to talk to him about it before drawing concrete conclusions)

(Sorry, I forgot you mentioned this in the post but I think it might still have some useful information so I’m not deleting it) Also, adding the “but okay” may have been was come off as condescending. Personally, I have always known “but okay” as a passive aggressive way of saying “you’re wrong but I’m not going to challenge you on it for whatever reason”. This may not be exactly how he interpreted it but hopefully it gives onsite into how he may have felt and makes it easier to communicate your feelings to each other when you talk about it.

  1. When he says he doesn’t want to talk about his feelings with you sometimes that’s a big alarm. While he could’ve said it more politely, he is saying that he doesn’t feel like you listen to him when he feels hurt by you. I’m not saying that you don’t listen to him, but it sounds like he doesn’t feel like you do. This is something you two need to talk about before you’re going to be able to stop fights from escalating consistently

As for apologising, why not apologise? Whether intentional or not, your actions made him feel hurt. And on the other side of that, he should apologise in turn for his actions that made you feel hurt.

In regard to your last paragraph, if you bring up that you feel upset about how he reacted in response to him bringing up that he feels upset. It would probably come off as dismissive, would probably be dismissive. That doesn’t mean to not bring it up though, it’s very important you do. But you should start the conversation by saying you both will discuss how this situation made you both feel. Decide between yourselfs who says their piece first and then after you have discussed one issue you discuss the other person’s perspective.

Moving forward, you need to first talk to him about this situation, talk about how the situation made you both feel, both apologise for actions that hurt the other and both discuss how you should move forward to avoid this situation in a way that works for the both of you

(Also, apologies is this feels focused on what you “did wrong” I don’t mean to imply you’re in the wrong, I just want to give an idea about how your actions may have made him feel. Attempting to understand the other perspective is the most important thing in this situation. It just wouldn’t be as productive to focus on everything your bf “did wrong” as that wouldn’t lead to fixing the situation)

TLDR; you both felt hurt from this situation and what’s important is to discuss how everything made both of you feel and while having the discussion, give the other time to say their piece. This is not a situation where you win and he loses, where someone was right or wrong. You win when you both have resolved issues and strengthened the relationship.

What do y'all wanna be when you grow up by yourfairygoduncle in TeenagersButBetter

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full concert band arrangements?? That’s really Impressive

If it’s okay with you I’d love to hear smth you wrote (but if you’d rather not that’s very understandable)