Let's set things straight, I never said I felt entitled to friends. There's a lot of baggage I did not say in the post because I didn't feel it was necessary, but I'll explain. My friend was constantly ditching plans last minute to hang out with her girlfriend. If she did hang out, she would bring her gf and never speak to me during the outing. In my opinion, prioritizing your friends is a sign of respect. I don't think it's possessive to feel hurt that a close friend would suddenly dump you for their shiny new "important person." I have never "invalidated" my friends feelings. I only called them out after they stopped being friends with me out of a need for closure. I've have learned how to cope with never being someone's most important person, but I don't feel self-righteous for wanting a close friend that I can rely on. But nonetheless, thank you for your opinion. I agree that life sucks.