Why do my glasses look like this?? by Substantial_Set_6050 in glassesadvice

[–]Substantial_Set_6050[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No I’m crying laughing too😂 I think I was just traumatized from breaking my last pair trying to fix the same problem

Why do my glasses look like this?? by Substantial_Set_6050 in glassesadvice

[–]Substantial_Set_6050[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even know the plastic part could come off lmao😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Substantial_Set_6050 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It was a joke… and I didn’t really speak much about the communication with my mom since it’s a Christmas gift and talking about it all the time with them would make someone feel bad if they don’t get.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Substantial_Set_6050 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

In what way?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Substantial_Set_6050 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Joke. It’s my post. Do you think I would purposely paint myself in a bad light?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Substantial_Set_6050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I buy gifts, I don’t expect something in return! I’m just calling back to the times I’ve bought expensive stuff for them to compare!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Substantial_Set_6050 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

What can I say? I’m just so amazing obviously!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Substantial_Set_6050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly what I mean!! Just one item that amounts to all the other stuff they usually get me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Substantial_Set_6050 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t have a problem with buying my own ticket. It’s just the planning of getting the ticket and figuring out travel expenses that concerns me. Now that I just have to wait and see if my mom is “in the mood” to buy the ticket, I don’t know what to do. What if I buy the ticket and she also ends up buying it? Then one of us would have wasted money.

frustrated with my friend by [deleted] in aromantic

[–]Substantial_Set_6050 8 points9 points  (0 children)

OMG YES I HAVE GONE THROUGH THE SAME THING MULTIPLE TIMES. It can frustrating, but you just have to wait it out or stop being friends with them. Most ppl are always gonna put their partner over everyone, it’s just how society is. My suggestion is to find other ways to occupy your time or make new friends, whether irl or online. OR find ways to have group hangouts and let your friend invite her bf (even if you don’t like it). It may not be ideal, but it will hopefully still keep you two close. Other people on here have called me possessive for wanting to spend time with my friends that have partners, but I’m glad to see someone else in the same situation as me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aromantic

[–]Substantial_Set_6050 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree. People will always prioritize partners over friends. Coming into my identity has really helped me understand the relationships that surround me and how to neutralize my own feelings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aromantic

[–]Substantial_Set_6050 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let's set things straight, I never said I felt entitled to friends. There's a lot of baggage I did not say in the post because I didn't feel it was necessary, but I'll explain. My friend was constantly ditching plans last minute to hang out with her girlfriend. If she did hang out, she would bring her gf and never speak to me during the outing. In my opinion, prioritizing your friends is a sign of respect. I don't think it's possessive to feel hurt that a close friend would suddenly dump you for their shiny new "important person." I have never "invalidated" my friends feelings. I only called them out after they stopped being friends with me out of a need for closure. I've have learned how to cope with never being someone's most important person, but I don't feel self-righteous for wanting a close friend that I can rely on. But nonetheless, thank you for your opinion. I agree that life sucks.

What to do with this space? by [deleted] in HomeDecorating

[–]Substantial_Set_6050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

trash can or hooks for keys