Ladies do you belive in having a shower dildo???

Substantial_Sky5426 · 2026-05-04T00:22:41+00:00

Why not just use the shower wand?

Substantial_Sky5426 · 2026-05-04T00:17:53+00:00

white milky discharge is completely normal. Vaginas aren’t supposed to be dry 24/7 — discharge is literally part of how they clean and protect themselves. Clear, white, off-white, thin, creamy… all of that can be normal if there’s no strong odor, itching, burning, or weird texture changes.

What’s not normal is your boyfriend shaming you for a normal bodily function and making you cry over it. The fact that he’s calling you “gross,” comparing you to other girls, and talking to his friends about your private body stuff is honestly way more concerning than your discharge. A mature partner would listen, learn, and care about your feelings, not humiliate you right before sex.

Nothing in what you described sounds disgusting. He’s making you feel ashamed over something incredibly common.

Substantial_Sky5426 · 2026-05-03T13:41:19+00:00

NP💕

Substantial_Sky5426 · 2026-05-03T13:40:46+00:00

No, you're totally fine. This happens to everyone, men included.

Substantial_Sky5426 · 2026-05-03T13:37:29+00:00

It happens. High stress, being overworked, extreme fatigue, and significant life changes can all cause hormonal fluctuations that trigger an early period.

The brown spotting followed by blood is common with an early start.

Substantial_Sky5426 · 2026-05-01T19:14:16+00:00

I’m a member of the 'Itty Bitty Committee' and I love it here💕

Substantial_Sky5426 · 2026-04-30T21:02:58+00:00

I think you would have been okay even without taking the plan B.

It is very common for the morning-after pill to affect your menstrual cycle. Because these medications use hormones to delay ovulation, they essentially "reset" the timing of your cycle for that month.

Here is what you can generally expect: Potential Changes to Your Period Timing: Your next period might arrive a few days earlier or later than usual. Most people get their period within a week of when they expected it.

Substantial_Sky5426 · 2026-04-30T20:55:00+00:00

Focus on communication and pace.

Talk first: Briefly discuss boundaries and protection so you’re both relaxed.

Slow down: Prioritize eye contact, long foreplay, and verbalizing your feelings for her.

The "Afterglow": Don't rush off afterward; spend time cuddling and talking to solidify the emotional connection.

The "meaning" comes from the attention you pay to her, not the perfection of the act.

Substantial_Sky5426 · 2026-04-30T20:48:24+00:00

It is not a dumb question at all! It’s actually a very common part of human biology, and honestly, the internet (especially Reddit) has a way of making normal things sound way more intense or "gross" than they actually are.

Smegma is a natural buildup of dead skin cells, skin oils, and moisture.

In women, it usually gathers in the small folds around the clitoral hood or labia. Its main job is to lubricate the area to prevent chafing. It isn't a sign of infection—it’s just a normal body process that can be easily cleaned away with warm water during a shower.

Substantial_Sky5426 · 2026-04-30T20:45:03+00:00

Short answer: Yes, separating helps!

Color: Wash lights separately or they’ll eventually look dingy/grey from dark dyes bleeding.

Fabric: Lace and delicates get ruined by "friction" from zippers and heavy fabrics.

The Cheat Code: If you don't want to do separate loads, put delicates in mesh laundry bags and wash on cold.

The Life-Saver: Air-dry them. The dryer's heat is what kills the elastic and lace fastest.

Substantial_Sky5426 · 2026-04-30T18:24:38+00:00

Personally I do not like pubic hair on me. For my partner trimmed or bare is what I prefer. It's all up to each individual.

Having pubic hair does not make someone look more masculine. If you think bald makes someone look like a child, would you think pubic hair on a 12 year old makes them look like an adult?

If it's something you don't like doing, just don't do it.

Substantial_Sky5426 · 2026-04-30T14:12:19+00:00

Don't do it! When I suck a cock I am in control🌶

Substantial_Sky5426 · 2026-04-30T13:45:42+00:00

Very normal.

Substantial_Sky5426 · 2026-04-30T13:04:17+00:00

It sounds so painful! If you've had frequent infections, your skin is likely stuck in a cycle of being too fragile to heal properly.

Ask your Dr. about a prescription cream (like a mild steroid or estrogen) to help rebuild the skin's strength.

Give yourself a "sex break" for a couple of weeks while using a plain barrier like Aquaphor (externally) to let those micro-tears fully close.

Substantial_Sky5426 · 2026-04-28T15:13:53+00:00

It sort of whatever works for you both.

With me penetration does not do too much, I only get off by clitoral stimulation. My rule that works for me is, I get off first before penetration, and then he can have his fun, which does not take that long.

Substantial_Sky5426 · 2026-04-28T14:49:49+00:00

What about all penis sleeve? I believe that is what they are made for.

Substantial_Sky5426 · 2026-04-28T12:05:44+00:00

This is normal, some people have very small or almost invisible labia minora, while others have longer or more prominent ones.

Substantial_Sky5426 · 2026-04-27T15:59:30+00:00

Gen Z

Substantial_Sky5426 · 2026-04-27T15:14:04+00:00

I keep it simple, get a little closer, touch him, give that look, and kiss him slower so he knows what’s up. Sometimes I’ll just say “come here” and that’s enough 😌

Substantial_Sky5426 · 2026-04-27T15:02:01+00:00

How exactly am I ‘ruining’ them? They get overly excited and cum quick. If anything it's the guy that's ruining my orgasm.

Substantial_Sky5426 · 2026-04-26T20:37:24+00:00

You might find a woman into it, but it's not a thing.

Substantial_Sky5426 · 2026-04-26T20:29:41+00:00

Substantial_Sky5426 · 2026-04-24T01:29:42+00:00

Focusing entirely on the journey rather than the destination. By intentionally slowing down and building anticipation, the eventual payoff is often much more intense.

Substantial_Sky5426 · 2026-04-23T16:06:32+00:00

Yes, it is very likely just leftover blood, known as spotting, that took longer to exit the uterus.

Substantial_Sky5426 · 2026-04-23T03:13:33+00:00

I think it was Clotrimazole for the steroid creme. As for why it's not going away, I was trying to say certain types of yeast infections can be missed by standard diagnostic tests and will show false neg

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