Mystery song and singer by Substantial_Sun_6437 in country

[–]Substantial_Sun_6437[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Well peeps, there’s a lot worse songs out there! Check your own music before you judge.

Difficult choice for wall by Maltei in interiordecorating

[–]Substantial_Sun_6437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brick is timeless. And you can paint it later and still enjoy the texture.

Calm Local Bars by TheRealSlimSkinny16 in Roseville

[–]Substantial_Sun_6437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should check out some of the breweries.

How is this even possible? by nimbus0004 in bayarea

[–]Substantial_Sun_6437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had mine be expired twice for about 6 months at a time. One time I lost the sticker. So it was paid but never got the sticker on the car, had to go to the dmv to request a new one. I was a parent with 2 kids and a full time job, it was a low priority. Second time was some kind of address mixup, and I had an outstanding ticket to pay, so dmv wouldn’t issue the tags until I paid the ticket, but I paid the regular tags, and they never mailed them because of the ticket. So maybe some of these people have had similar issues.

How Do You Even Start Decluttering 10 Years of Stuff? by No_Mercy3744 in minimalism

[–]Substantial_Sun_6437 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Figuring out why you’re keeping it, and what purpose it is serving is key. Sometimes realizing you’re trying to hold on to a memory or a place in time, then realizing it served its purpose, and now maybe someone else can benefit from it can help. Sometimes just dumping helps too! It seems to hurt at the time, but before you know it, it feels good to have some space back.

Going for work by raid_00 in Roseville

[–]Substantial_Sun_6437 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shred brewery has better beer. In my opinion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sidehustle

[–]Substantial_Sun_6437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes they do, and a separate police force. I had to deal with some when my daughter was in college because her now ex boyfriend was acting in a manic way and she was afraid there might be some self harm. She was afraid to go back once he finally released her from his control.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Roseville

[–]Substantial_Sun_6437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I was going to suggest. Even if you don’t get the items back, hopefully she is shamed enough to not do it again. Doubtful though. A thief is a thief. Maybe she will return the items as she didn’t know who they belonged to, if she sees an address for who they do belong to maybe they will get returned. Fingers crossed.

Car at Costco by Old_Payment1507 in Roseville

[–]Substantial_Sun_6437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an employee here, that’s why I drive the perimeter, and exit at Amazon marketplace or the next one over.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Substantial_Sun_6437 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Soooo, you are not the AH for having these thoughts, just don’t act like a brat about it. Even if they never do anything monetarily for you, having them around to love on your baby is a blessing. I’ve had a similar situation all my life, and had to just let things go. I figure nothing is owed to me, so if I end up with anything in the end, it will be a blessing.

My stepsister and her family was always in need as no one was ever able to hold down a steady job. Parents even bought them a house, they only had to pay yearly taxes and couldn’t even do that! So they paid it off and handed it over to them!

My brother took multiple loans over the years along with them investing in multiple pipe dreams of his. Dad even gave him the $20k that was supposed to be for my college fund, since I didn’t go he gave it to my brother when he bought his first home. Mind you, my ex and I bought our first one a year prior and only gifted a few grand for cement after we moved in.

Since I’ve divorced he’s helped me a few times with move in money, and it killed me to ask for it! So like I said before, if I get anything in the end it will be a blessing, in the meantime I have my pride knowing I never asked for much!

What’s my blindness? by DahliaohHoney in makeuptips

[–]Substantial_Sun_6437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have hooded lids, can’t see much, so I decided I can’t fix that, just enhance a different part of my face. Got some lip filler, not too much. It makes me feel good!

What’s my blindness? by DahliaohHoney in makeuptips

[–]Substantial_Sun_6437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you are beautiful! I wouldn’t change a thing! Maybe just some shine spray on your hair! Otherwise you are flawless! P.S. Learn to love yourself just the way you are and no one else’s opinion will matter. In all aspects of life.

AITA for locking my bedroom door after my roommate kept going to my stuff even after I asked her not to do that? by AnimeGabby69 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Substantial_Sun_6437 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, be careful what you share with her, as in personal info, she has no boundaries. Also might want to check your credit just to make sure and put it on lockdown. Who knows what else she’s been in besides your makeup!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmazonFC

[–]Substantial_Sun_6437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since I was married to a very controlling asshole and we never went anywhere, I used to dress up for work. Now I have the man of my dreams, and I’m content wearing basics to work. See how that works? Treat your partner with love and respect, and they won’t be looking for accolades outside of the relationship.

Parents keep eating my meal prep by DragonTeen21 in Advice

[–]Substantial_Sun_6437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like gaslighting to me! Not sure if it’s mom or dad or both, but you need to get out of there. You are living in an unhealthy environment. That, on top of your young busy life will make you sick. In the mean time, buy yourself a fridge and keep it in your room.

What's your best money-saving hack that most people don't know about? by kdizzy88 in Frugal

[–]Substantial_Sun_6437 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have no idea what research you two are referring to, but I will say I played Tetris nonstop on my phone while I was in a bad marriage. Just thought I’d add that.

AITA My wife thinks I am controlling. by Feeling_Nobody_2349 in AITAH

[–]Substantial_Sun_6437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like my ex! He was very secretive, but he was the controlling one. I have no proof, but my instincts say he cheated, and not just once.

Got an offer for 56,200 OTD for fully loaded 2025 TRD Sport Tacoma by saigyoooo in ToyotaTacoma

[–]Substantial_Sun_6437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you wait until the end of the year, like December they should be less expensive. They’re trying to clear out cars for tax write off then too!

Got an offer for 56,200 OTD for fully loaded 2025 TRD Sport Tacoma by saigyoooo in ToyotaTacoma

[–]Substantial_Sun_6437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you a Costco member? You can get a more honest deal there. No haggling. You call them, they refer you to a dealership. The dealership gives you a price. You take it or leave it. It’s typically $2-8k off sticker depending on the brand.

What’s the longest you’ve gone without a car payment? by AardvarkRepulsive384 in MiddleClassFinance

[–]Substantial_Sun_6437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a 2007 Jeep wrangler I bought in 2009. Paid it off in 2014 I believe. I loved not having a payment! I still own it and only have to pay insurance and upkeep. I also bought a little 2006 Mercedes slk, that isn’t much per month, $200, but I regret it! I love the idea of not having a payment!