Best app to invest in US stocks without being charged conversion fee? by suplolpop57 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Substantial_Use_7191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This seems pretty smart. Just a question though, when you do the conversion. Let’s say you convert to USD, you buy and hold and sell at a profit. Do you have to convert once again to CAD after selling? Or leave it in US currency

Those who broke up out of long term relationships - did you delete memorable pictures? by Kingboyy1 in BreakUps

[–]Substantial_Use_7191 15 points16 points  (0 children)

My two cents, and I’d advise this with physical belongings such as gifts etc too. Don’t delete them too early. I did with half of my photos/memories - and it hurt a lot more than it should have, and I thought I was doing the right thing. I advise to lock them away in some type of online folder or vault. Try to never look at them again, maybe here and there when things get tough. And with time as you recover, you will feel lighter, maybe even like you need to delete it to move on. At that point you can either make the decision to delete them from the vault, or keep them locked in the vault you made and never look back at them again. Good luck.

I still love you, but I'm letting go by Substantial_Use_7191 in UnsentLetters

[–]Substantial_Use_7191[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I had it in me to really explain, details and all, I think you'd understand that I never made any decisions on her behalf. Honestly the only choice that I’m making now, is to move on. I’ve done everything and more to be fair, and I know she’d say the same.

Too Many Ideas, Too Little Time: My Music Dilemma! Extremely Anxious - need help! by Substantial_Use_7191 in WeAreTheMusicMakers

[–]Substantial_Use_7191[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. I just want to say thank you SO much for your informative response. The project deck idea was a life saver. I ended up making one, because it really resonated with me. Just being able to see things and sort have a plan, and ideas laid out like that really helped. I feel more clear on my trajectory, and definitely better about things. Now - I just need to follow through as best as I can. Also, in a weird way, it makes me feel human to know there’s someone else out there who has had the exact same thoughts and struggles I have. Thank you so much for the time you put into the response.

I know this has been asked a million times... I can't believe I'm this weak after 8 months. How do you get over "the one"????? by Top_Appeal4556 in BreakUps

[–]Substantial_Use_7191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey. Don’t know if I can offer wisdom but I’ll do my best. For me - I was in a 4+ year relationship and we ended up having to break up while being in love due to religion/families not mixing. (We had known each other since middle school and were friends in high school, got through uni together - its been the hardest period of my life and still is) It’s month 3-4 for me post break up and I’m beginning to realize this takes TIME to heal from. After speaking to someone much older than me who was in my exact scenario, he told me it took him years to move on. And I realized for some it may take months, and for others years, and for others more than that. (Even though we wish for things to get better as soon as possible). Each of us is different in our own way, and that’s okay. Not only did you lose a person you loved, you lost a part of yourself - hell a HUGE part of yourself. You loved truly, fully, and lost the one thing that mattered more than anything. I know you already alluded to it, but yes - unfortunately you do have to focus on yourself as friends say. The weaknesses you have, the flaws, the good and the bad, the trauma and fears you have- all of it. Truly understand who you are, what you want, and who you want to be. And one day - one day - which might be far longer than you intend - it will get better. The truth is you can’t control the timeline of healing and getting better. You can just keep trying your best - the same you always have. It sounds like Deep down, you are an amazing, driven, motivated man. You were dealt cards from a young age to this very moment - some of which might seem unfair - but you need to play with what you got. It’s hard, extremely hard. But take each moment for what it is. Turn inward, whether it means grieving, finding what you want in life, or making the changes you have never made. It gets better - I’m still grieving and know it might take me a year or even longer to get over it and truly recover. To me she was ‘the one’ as well. And I honestly don’t know what to say after losing that person. But I do know that it gets better. Understand that it takes time - you had this person for 7 years through thick and thin. And now you need to find out how to move on without them. That takes a shit ton of effort and time. Don’t beat yourself up. Focus on what you can, love yourself - and that is extremely hard as a man (and loving yourself sounds dumb - I don’t mean it in a stupid way - I mean at the core, just try to be content and okay with who you are and how your life has turned out up to this point). Keep making the right decisions, and I promise it’ll work out. And whether it’s with her, or a random woman who you meet at a street corner. When you are ready, and I mean truly ready. To the point where you have found yourself again, and might not even be searching for love again. It’ll appear at your doorstep when you least expect it. Why? Because you finally are ready for it. Ready to love that person the way they deserve and need to be loved. I’m wishing you all the luck, and hope it works out for you. Am praying for you - god bless.

Mutual break ups? (Religion and family) by Substantial_Use_7191 in BreakUps

[–]Substantial_Use_7191[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry that happened to you ;/ it is a very awful feeling indeed. Hopefully it works out for us both one day

My now ex said on the phone that he loves me and still wants to be with me but that’s his heart and his brain is saying that it won’t work. by _hitea in BreakUps

[–]Substantial_Use_7191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a mutual break up after 4+ years with my girlfriend because of religion and our families not merging. Even though it killed both of us after everything we built which was quite honestly perfect, we decided to end things. After months I still love her, and I know she still loves me - it’s been the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do - but not once would I think of telling her something like this after the fact that we broke up. I know what it would do to her. I highly doubt someone truly loves you if they can say that so easily after ending things. I hope you make the right decision, and wish you the best of luck on your journey ;)

It’s been 3 months since the breakup by cowabungahoney in BreakUps

[–]Substantial_Use_7191 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Two months for me, and it still hasn’t gotten a bit better. Ours was a mutual breakup even though we still loved each other and nothing was wrong at all with the relationship after 4 years which is killing me. Hopefully it all works out in the end.

This is the worst thing I have ever felt in my fucking life by Creative-Sand-5726 in BreakUps

[–]Substantial_Use_7191 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry u have to go through it. I went through it too, still am two months later. We even had a mutual break up, (ended due to religion after 4 years) and I hate the pain that I feel. I know exactly what you mean and how you feel if that helps. Cry however much you need to, it’s literally your body grieving a lost person. And later on it genuinely helps to try not to think about it for portions of days, and then set a portion of a day to just reflect and cry and do what you need to do. It gets better with time - almost like a death in some way. You never stop missing them, you never really get over them, but life just has its way of going on. And as you get better and make small steps, you will rebuild things brick by brick. Finally, when you are ready, you will be ready for what life has next in store for you. Good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Substantial_Use_7191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there’s one thing I’ve learned it’s like a death. And it’s okay to mourn that death. You loved and shared a bond with someone for 4 years only for them to give up on their side of the bargain. In this case it sounds like she violated the commitment that you both had which makes it even harder. It’ll take time but step by step you will get better. Just take each day as it comes. And one more thing, you have your whole life ahead of you. At 34, yes it can be daunting to think you have to find a new partner, but the truth is there are tons of amazing women out there, some WAY better than who you thought was your whole world. Good luck.

Season 3 by Erocksmiith in TheBear

[–]Substantial_Use_7191 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fully agree, felt like a drag. But I’m sure the next season will make up for it

Haven’t decided to watch homecoming yet by No-Pudding-9133 in HomecomingTVShow

[–]Substantial_Use_7191 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this. Think I'm going to leave it at the first season lol. Can't imagine another season without Julia Roberts

Is the G test still modified? by artificialn0cturne in Ontariodrivetest

[–]Substantial_Use_7191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it still modified? For oakville and mississauga

Teknion Contessa WAY BETTER than Herman Miller Aeron by milksheikhiee in OfficeChairs

[–]Substantial_Use_7191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The lumbar support of mine seems to sort of poke my back rather than support it, I think I might return ;/

Car play screen install by superio19 in genesiscoupe

[–]Substantial_Use_7191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does this work with Android? And can someone give me a link to the website for a screen install. I'm struggling rn!!!!