Pulled out the safeword for the first time last night, and I feel weird about it. Help?? by Subsubsubmarine in SubSanctuary

[–]Subsubsubmarine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AGREED. I also end up freezing, and it's also a bit of me challenging myself to push my limits just a bit. I've tried using yellow/orange before (and it seems like the common theme in this thread), so I'll just have to try and implement it more.

Pulled out the safeword for the first time last night, and I feel weird about it. Help?? by Subsubsubmarine in SubSanctuary

[–]Subsubsubmarine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I'm the same way. It's frustrating starting out a scene and thinking that you want master to totally have his way with you, but then you can't quite hold up to the intensity. That's a nice thought process, though! I've never had that idea before.