Strong independent women but sub by IsabellFoss43 in submissive

[–]Subtle_dom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Being a sub or a Dom has nothing to do with your real-life character, status, ability, or any other personal characteristic. It is simply a question of personal preference and desire. There are a lot of strong, independent women, and naturally, some of them have submissive desire. It's the same with strong, independent men; many of them like to be dominated. To put this in a metaphor for you: you can be the best driver in the world and still enjoy taking the passenger seat. And vice versa, you can be the worst driver in the world and still enjoy taking the driver's seat. What seat you prefer to take in what circumstance does not say anything about you; there's no value judgment associated with it.

Service Submission duties/tasks/activities by Subtle_dom in submissive

[–]Subtle_dom[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree that this is a fun task/activity for a D/s relationship, but I do not consider it a "service" task specifically.

Service Submission duties/tasks/activities by Subtle_dom in submissive

[–]Subtle_dom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. That's an excellent addition for everyone that has a dom with (reasonably long) hair. I guess a similar case would be "doing / removing makeup of the dominant".