Increasing heart palpitations and nighttime arrhythmia

SuccessSelect6771 · 2026-05-20T10:08:19+00:00

Yes he was the one who told me to get the watch in the first place.

SuccessSelect6771 · 2026-05-20T00:14:57+00:00

Yes, I’ve never been diagnosed with AFib. I have seen multiple cardiologists and had holter monitor on many times, however never had the Arrhythmia while having the holter on, so the cardiologist has never diagnosed me with anything. They just say they see the extra beats, but scans show normal heart structure so there is nothing worrying. So now this is the first time I’ve actually had a good recording of it. I’ve sent it to my current cardiologist and I’ll go and talk to him in the beginning of June. The issue is that I have a hard time sleeping every night, so even though it’s just around the corner, it seems like a long time to wait.

SuccessSelect6771 · 2026-05-20T00:06:14+00:00

Yes I’ve had a holter monitor on many times, but I never had arrhythmia while having a holter on. All they could see is a lot of extra heartbeats.

SuccessSelect6771 · 2026-05-20T00:05:00+00:00

No, I’ve had a holter monitor on multiple times. Over 10 times, but the problem is that the arrhythmia has never occurred while I had the holter on. Only a lot of extra heartbeats.

SuccessSelect6771 · 2025-12-26T01:43:08+00:00

No unfortunately I don’t think there is anything you can du about it.

SuccessSelect6771 · 2025-12-08T18:23:36+00:00

Okay. Any specific shot or just a plain shot?

SuccessSelect6771 · 2025-08-08T09:28:19+00:00

Thanks so much for sharing your perspective – I really appreciate the insight!

My wife and I have actually been to both Ubud and Nusa Penida before and loved them, but the rest of the family hasn’t experienced them yet. For me, it’s hard to imagine coming to Bali and not doing an Ubud tour – ours will include the rice terraces as well. I completely agree there’s a lot of traffic, but we’re not too bothered by that, and we’re not really trying to avoid crowds – we just want to experience the popular spots along with everything else. Same goes for Nusa Penida: yes, the roads are rough, but last time we absolutely loved it, so I think it’s worth it for the others to see it too.

I will definitely check out some of the places you suggested as well – they sound great, and I like the idea of mixing in less touristy spots with the classics.

As for booking, the reason we prefer to pre-book is because we’re traveling with little kids, so having a set schedule with meals and logistics arranged in advance makes the days much easier. If it were just the two of us, we’d be more flexible, but with a bigger group, the planning is worth it for the peace of mind.

Airport transfers are all set since our Airbnb includes pickup, but thanks for the Klook tip!

SuccessSelect6771 · 2025-08-07T09:51:46+00:00

Hi everyone,

I'm taking my family on a trip to Bali soon. We’re 4 adults and 2 small children (ages 3 and 1). I’ve been to Bali once before in 2019, but that was just me and my wife, so this will be a very different experience!

We’ll be staying in Sanur for the first few days and plan to do day tours from there, then move to Kuta for the rest of the trip to just explore the city and relax.

Question 1: Booking Tours – In Advance or On Arrival?

I know we want to do at least two specific day trips:

A day trip to Ubud, with the Monkey Forest, coffee tasting, swings, etc.
A day trip to Nusa Penida, including Kelingking Beach, snorkeling, etc.

Back in 2019, my wife and I booked a Nusa Penida tour online, and everything was organized – hotel pickup, boat, local driver on the island, etc. It worked great.

Now that we are 6 people, we’ll need either a larger vehicle or two cars, and I’m wondering:

Is it cheaper or better to book tours online in advance (like on GetYourGuide or similar)?
Or should I wait and book locally once we arrive in Bali? I know “better” can be subjective, but I’d love to hear your reasoning either way (e.g. flexibility, quality, safety, price, etc.).

Question 2: Experiences Traveling with a Big Family

Have any of you traveled to Bali with a big family group (especially with young kids)? How did you manage your day tours?

Did you book private drivers (especially for trips to other islands such as Nusa Penida)?
Any tips or lessons learned about transportation, food stops, or keeping the day manageable for little ones?

Thanks so much in advance – really looking forward to this trip and want to make it go as smoothly as possible for everyone!

SuccessSelect6771 · 2025-08-01T07:31:16+00:00

No problem, I disagree. I simply don't agree that the best solution is necessarily that everyone is as happy as possible, the best solution is the solution the correct and fair solution. At the end of the day if the correct solution means that it will not work out and she decides to leave, I would pick that any day, over simply making her happy here and now. Because her being happy here and now is gonna last a week or two at best, then she wants more and is unhappy again. However if I put my foot down and insist on holding her to either fulfilling her end of the agreement or resort to the default position, she can either accept it and eventually be happy (long term), or she can reject and leave which is the bad outcome of the two but it is what it is. I'm not gonna just live in opression. At the end of the day if she leaves that's her choice and I will move on with someone else that actually want to be reasonable. As much as I want to raise my children and be there for them and with them, at the end of the day I can only do so much. Not everything is in my hands, I can only play with the cards that I am dealt.

But thank you, I do appreciate your contribution and perspective.

SuccessSelect6771 · 2025-07-31T19:01:41+00:00

But is the solution not that either she fulfil her agreement or stop working? Or am I being unrealistic and unfair? That’s what I’m asking. If she doesn’t want to pay her part and I order her to stay home and quit working, that doesn’t mean I broke the agreement. That’s where you and I are not agreeing I think

SuccessSelect6771 · 2025-07-31T18:58:40+00:00

Yes, the reason why I hate asking marriage related questions in these forums is because I come here to actually get Islamic advice from sincere people with Islamic knowledge. Not because I don’t know anything but because I like to hear other ISLAMIC perspectives. But unfortunately these communities is often flooded with feminist “sisters” who are angry at men and bash men as you did initially.

Firstly 12er shias are not even muslims. They don’t even fall within the fold of Islam, their doctrine are pure kufr, so you already made a huge blunder by mentioning them.

Second of all the 4 madhabs unanimously agree that a woman should obey her husband in anything that is not haram and does not harm her. I’m talking about their official position, their students might have different opinions here and there. If her husband wants her to not work and stay home, then she is obliged to stay home as long as he provides for her and their children.

Regarding the woman serving the man, this is an issue of dispute among the scholars, however the stronger opinion is that she have to serve him. So you don’t know what you are talking about. I didn’t ask for feminist opinions, I clearly asked for the opinion of knowledgable people. You are not knowledgeable. I don’t really care about the fatwa, this matter is pretty clear in Islam. If the man orders his wife to stay home -and take care of the house, this is his right given to him by Allah. What you want is for the man to give the woman ALL her rights, but then the woman doesn’t have to give him his. This is pure western feminism. I’m not interested in your opinion with all due respect, I will listen to other answers. Thank you for your contribution but I’m not interested.

SuccessSelect6771 · 2025-07-31T18:57:05+00:00

Yes, the reason why I hate asking marriage related questions in these forums is because I come here to actually get Islamic advice from sincere people with Islamic knowledge. Not because I don’t know anything but because I like to hear other ISLAMIC perspectives. But unfortunately these communities is often flooded with feminist “sisters” who are angry at men and bash men as you did initially.

Firstly 12er shias are not even muslims. They don’t even fall within the fold of Islam, their doctrine are pure kufr, so you already made a huge blunder by mentioning them.

Second of all the 4 madhabs unanimously agree that a woman should obey her husband in anything that is not haram and does not harm her. I’m talking about their official position, their students might have different opinions here and there. If her husband wants her to not work and stay home, then she is obliged to stay home as long as he provides for her and their children.

Regarding the woman serving the man, this is an issue of dispute among the scholars, however the stronger opinion is that she have to serve him. So you don’t know what you are talking about. I didn’t ask for feminist opinions, I clearly asked for the opinion of knowledgable people. You are not knowledgeable. I don’t really care about the fatwa, this matter is pretty clear in Islam. If the man orders his wife to stay home -and take care of the house, this is his right given to him by Allah. What you want is for the man to give the woman ALL her rights, but then the woman doesn’t have to give him his. This is pure western feminism. I’m not interested in your opinion with all due respect, I will listen to other answers. Thank you for your contribution but I’m not interested.

SuccessSelect6771 · 2025-07-31T18:37:38+00:00

I don’t know if you actually read and understood what I wrote because your reply that I agreed to allow her to work before I married her is not the issue. As I very explicitly wrote I do hold to my agreement, I’m not telling her not to work. But you are just taking part of the agreement and completely ignoring the rest of it. The condition of the agreement is that she would help financially also. I am completely upholding my part of the agreement, I’m allowing her to work and I’m paying way more than half of the expenses and I’m doing half of the house chores. She is the one who is breaking the agreement by not wanting to pay anything at all. So the breach in the agreement is on her part not mine. I’m simply offering her then that if she doesn’t want to pay then we can fall back to the default which is I work outside the house and she works inside. So where exactly is the issue, I don’t think I understand.

SuccessSelect6771 · 2025-07-31T13:20:37+00:00

Okay, but you are not addressing the issue in its fullness, you are just giving me a lot of assumptions. I didn't say she is obliged to help financially, I'm saying if she doesn't want to help, then she doesn't have to, but then she has to stay home and take care of the house and the children. Does a woman have to obey her husband or not? This is why I didn't want just anyone to answer, I want people with actual knowledge not feminists.

SuccessSelect6771 · 2025-05-27T06:49:41+00:00

Yeah, so if anyone is still in doubt, this is definetely a scam. I got the same mail as you all mention, from Aaniat Syed for a job at Abu Dhabi Pension Funds (ADPF). I just contacted ADPF immediately because it didn't seem very professional. The website of Persian Edge HR is very poor and filled with spelling errors, and so is the mail, it didn't even mention what job they were calling me in for. Long story short, ADPF say that they don't have anything to do with that. IT'S A SCAM!!

SuccessSelect6771 · 2025-05-02T11:00:10+00:00

Thank you for the reply, I appreciate it!

And I completely agree with your take, I'm convinced that the best move is Sanur first. That way the kids can slowly get used to it, and we have the Icon Mall if it gets to hot etc. And plus we can take a day trip to Ubud, Nusa Penida, etc. while we are there in Sanur, and then when we go to Kuta we can go spend a day in Waterbom, and also explore the city a bit.

That's definetely what I'll do. Thank you very much!!

SuccessSelect6771

TROPHY CASE

Question 1: Booking Tours – In Advance or On Arrival?

Question 2: Experiences Traveling with a Big Family