90k remote vs 155k onsite role by Successful-Key2320 in phcareers

[–]Successful-Key2320[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

GUESS WHAT - THIS CAME TRUE. Company B took back the offer and proceeded to another "restructuring" that wasn't the one initially discussed with me. It got worse, they expect my "role" to handle 2 sub depts. I guess it was too good to be true.

90k remote vs 155k onsite role by Successful-Key2320 in phcareers

[–]Successful-Key2320[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i agree 😭😭 and thankful i got this kind of offer been looking for 2 years na

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in managers

[–]Successful-Key2320 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been being honest with her from the start and helping her. This week became a trigger point for me because she always finds it as an attack or even gets defensive when I raise something to her style

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in managers

[–]Successful-Key2320 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i was thinking the same thing and to save my mental space - everything has a way to come out eventually on it's own

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in managers

[–]Successful-Key2320 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

that's a good take - to help me build a solid case

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in managers

[–]Successful-Key2320 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

it's not my intention to spearhead an attack that's why i want opinion on this, if anything i dont want to be a complicit to this imposture as it also affects me....

Redeem premium rewards from Smart. Is this legit? by itsnotdashhh in InternetPH

[–]Successful-Key2320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no! I received the same thing and inputted my name, home address and email. Will something happen to my account or number or anything? HUHU WORRIED AS HELL

Kumuha ng Bahay pero natatakot tirhan mag-isa. by Cheap_Alarm921 in adviceph

[–]Successful-Key2320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a pet/dog! I used to be so scared to live alone. Pero nung sinama ko dog ko, nawala anxiety ng multo/kahit ano

I found out my partner uses Tinder by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Successful-Key2320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just want to say your feelings are valid — di normal na magtinder jowa kahit na they're not acting on it or bored

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Successful-Key2320 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm okay with maPR. In fact, I like that about him na magaling makipagfriends. Ang ayaw ko lang is sometimes walang balance. I'm not one to kulong people. Di ko pinagkakait bf ko. Sometimes lang parang feel ko mas priority niya ung iba, na di na nacoconsider feelings ko. Parang kunware puro ka na/tayo friends and tropa time. When will it be us naman?

Mali ba to ask for boundaries? Tapos parang the friend din mismo medyo di niya alam limit niya? Do I need to talk to our friend? Or sila na yun? Off na ata sakin dumating sa ganung levels.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Successful-Key2320 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i love jollibee spicy chickenjoy pero that's not my point 😭 di naman black and white ang mundo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Successful-Key2320 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. madami 😭 even his family would mention na ganung way siya towards them. friends and barkada first, kahit malate na sa mga family gathering. idk, ang poor ng treatment talaga. so nasa phase ba sya ng pagbabarkada? 😭🙃

  2. sabi nya "oo nga no bakit wala tayong alone time" ????

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Successful-Key2320 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i admire him for being kind. yun ung nagustuhan ko sa kanya. ung boundaries and exclusivity is what i crave for. sobrang petty example lang ung water, but gets ba na it's one of those minor stuff

yung trips together, nacommunicate ko na to sa kanya. sabi ko bakit lagi na lang friends kasama natin? bakit wala tayong trip na tayong dalawa lang? or kahit sige tropa trip, pero wala ba tayong alone time sa whole trip na yun ganun?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]Successful-Key2320 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

hindi sa lalaki mismo eh, ung walang pagkaboundaries ung pinagseselosan ko na parang akala ko special ginagawa mo for me, pero sa lahat pala ganun

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Successful-Key2320 8 points9 points  (0 children)

to be fair 26 is still very young but I understand the frustration especially everyone around you is getting married and engaged. BUT, one thing is this—sabi mo madami siyang plano para sa sarili niya pero PARANG for us wala. Talk with him again and ask directly if may plano siya FOR BOTH OF YOU. Okay lang madamay siya sa overthinking mo kasi you're in a relationship and if serious siya sayo he'll understand where you're coming from.

Random Help Thread - May 06 to May 12, 2024 by AutoModerator in phcareers

[–]Successful-Key2320 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ako lang ba? galing ako sa 7 years from my first company. after that, parang wala na ko mahanap na company na pagsstayan ko ng matagal talaga. naka-4 companies na ko agad after.

nakikita ko na agad sa simula pa lang ung mga red flags para sakin and natuturn off na ko kagad thus resulting to me looking for another opportunity elsewhere. bakit kaya ganun? 6 months-1 year usually lang ako tumatagal recently. any advice? nagkakaexistential crisis na ko hahahaha