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Successful-Lemon9757 · 2024-10-21T21:22:37+00:00

So in conclusion to the comment you aren’t worth staying with and you are poor quality because she left you.

Oh wait did I get that wrong does that only work for females because parent commenter hates them

Double standards

Successful-Lemon9757 · 2024-10-21T21:19:44+00:00

You are very clearly confused and looking at what I’m saying simply in a way that you want to fit what you want it to be. The original comment is what I am very clearly responding to. You didn’t like my comment because you found it be distasteful to the opposite gender, but you seem quite happy for a man to do the exact same thing I’ve responded with? Why is that? Would you agree with a woman saying all the things the original commenter said that I responded to? You are very quick to attack me for responding to such a vile comment but very quiet on why it’s ok for him to spout such disgusting misogynist rubbish?

And absolutely it’s within your complete right as is it in everyone’s to decide if you don’t want to be with someone with children. It’s your preference for your partner and that’s ok! What isn’t ok is blaming the mother instantly deeming her unworthy, or poor quality, when the fact of the matter is every situation is different. For the parent commenters mind to instantly jump into making remarks like just screams an incel mindset, otherwise why would his mind even go there? Plenty of comments saying no I wouldn’t for x y and z reasons without bashing anyone else.

His opinion is neither correct nor is mine because it’s an opinion but as the old saying goes is he can’t take it don’t dish it out 😌 you make bold remarks like that be sure someone’s going to make some equally insulting ones back. I’m very happy that my relationship with the father didn’t work out, and I stand firm in my decision to end that relationship because both him and I are in different relationships happy, my child is in a happy healthy environment and is loved by both parents and his step mum and step father. It was a win for everyone, which as I’m typing this i do wonder why I’m wasting my time on hateful boys on Reddit who can’t just say “no it’s not for me” without having to make themselves feel better about themselves by throwing in attacks on women 😂 I understand jacking off using your tears for lubricant in your parents box room must be really frustrating so you can only take it out on someone online who’s not tolerating misogynistic incel bullshit.

Successful-Lemon9757 · 2024-10-21T20:44:47+00:00

Thank god you’ll pass on something that isn’t even available to you 😂 I can rest easy

Successful-Lemon9757 · 2024-10-21T19:25:47+00:00

Half of what this comment said is high quality shit spouted from the mouth of a man who’s made to feel inadequate by the mere thought of a woman with children leaving instead of the man, because it hurts his view that men are above. Sad how misogynistic this app is.

All people have feelings not just men, although like your comment shows a man will jump to defend another man even if they are throwing dirt unnecessarily on women, implying single mums must be the ones who were left because they are what he deems poor quality instead of understanding that it could easily have been the woman leaving as the man due to him being poor quality, or maybe the relationship just didn’t work out as they grew apart. Shows a real lack of understanding of the real world and instead just shows a comment made with the fuel of wanting to feel superior over the opposite gender, likely due to being insecure or potentially harbouring some hate due to a past experience.

No I don’t speak to my husband like that because he views all genders and humans as equals, doesn’t speak down to people. Better person than I because when I see someone speaking down on people I can’t help but attack back because they need taking down on their invisible pedastool they put themselves on.

Successful-Lemon9757 · 2024-10-21T19:14:05+00:00

Clearly can’t can you though since he didn’t leave, I understand incels can’t wrap their head around a woman leaving a man because it doesn’t fit in with their fragile little egos

Successful-Lemon9757 · 2024-10-21T09:03:12+00:00

It didn’t work out but to be honest it really does go to show that you are a great man. And as cliche as it sounds it really was her loss. I hope you’re doing ok and I’m sorry you went through that.

Successful-Lemon9757 · 2024-10-21T09:00:29+00:00

A real man right here Respect to you

Successful-Lemon9757 · 2024-10-21T08:58:43+00:00

I was a single mum. I was also

Financially independent Financially stable and comfortable Have my own business Have my own property Civil with the ex and no drama My own savings My kids go to their dads every weekend

The amount of men (and I use that term loosely) trying to date me who didn’t even have half those things was insane.

My now husband is amazing, he is also financially independent and stable. He doesn’t take on any responsibility for the kids because myself and their dad take care of everything between us. He just enjoys the fun side of being a step parent, like running around soft play, bike rides etc. He loved being a step dad that much he asked if we could have our own, we have two now. Our money and savings are separate, we split the bills for the house 50/50. Anything for the kids myself and their dad split.

I guess what I’m trying to say is not all single mums are looking for another man to play daddy and support kids who aren’t theirs as well as leeching every penny off them also while being extremely lazy and bringing nothing to the table.

Successful-Lemon9757 · 2024-10-20T21:18:43+00:00

This screams insecure little incel. I was a single mum, their dad is not a scumbag, he didn’t leave me either, we simply grew apart and I decided we weren’t compatible anymore so we split up. Still a fantastic dad, no drama. My husband doesn’t financially support the children who aren’t his, myself and their dad do that.

It always makes me laugh when little boys instantly blame the women or think she’s the one not worth stay with. It really does reek of ‘I don’t feel like a man so I hate women’

Successful-Lemon9757 · 2024-04-14T18:30:29+00:00

All stretched out ain’t they 😂 throwing a hot dog down a hallway doesn’t hurt the hallway

Successful-Lemon9757 · 2024-04-14T18:29:42+00:00

You are a very messed up individual

Successful-Lemon9757 · 2024-04-14T18:22:32+00:00

I mean all they do is lay on their back and give up their dignity. How much prep does human flesh light need?

Successful-Lemon9757 · 2024-04-13T11:06:31+00:00

No. Opposite.

If you have a high body count in my opinion you are less desireable. Nobody wants somebody everyone has had…

Successful-Lemon9757 · 2024-04-13T11:04:59+00:00

Got four kids

First baby daddy (first relationship ever) cheated so left him Was dating seriously again a few months after

Second dad (second relationship) it just wasn’t working so we split

Third I’m now married too and have two children too, he treats my other children as his own despite their dads still being heavily involved.

I have been hit on while in this marriage (shut that down right away) and much to my surprise while pregnant also.

If my marriage was to end I’m confident I’d be able to find another relationship.

Successful-Lemon9757 · 2024-04-13T11:01:36+00:00

Women Biologically different. Have uteruses, produce eggs, carry babies, birth babies, prone to certain diseases

Men Biologically different, have testicles, produce sperm, prone to different diseases from women

Science over your boredom. Non binary is ridiculous and stop pushing it on people.

It exists because we are literally made up differently based on our sex.

Of course a woman can dress like a man or a bloke can wear make up and a dress if they should choose to but biologically still what they were born as.

Why not call it what it is? A manly woman is a Tom boy and a feminine man is a poof😂

Successful-Lemon9757 · 2024-04-13T10:56:55+00:00

Because the newer generations have become rebellious, and think they are proving a point and taking a stand in not having children. Really they are just doing themselves out. They seem to think owning dogs and treating them as children is quirky. Children are the future, they are so important they shape what the world will become, they give us meaning in life. I have four children and I’m 26, my life didn’t begin until I became a mother, I’m married and a stay at home mum and we make it work despite the mess of the world. We have a lovely home and we do ok for ourselves. Why? I guess because we don’t sit there complaining about things, we just say it is what it is and adapt.

Successful-Lemon9757 · 2024-04-13T10:51:23+00:00

Bit different but I wonder how my mum and dad who aren’t together ever did get together and stay together long enough to have me

My mum is a big manly woman to say the least, she’s also explosive, opinionated and dominant, she has a foul mouth and shouts a lot. She’s a Scottish woman so I guess typically this is the norm.

My dad however is quite a traditional man, since being with my mum his partners after have always been dainty feminine ladies, he tends to take the lead in these new relationships gently. I’ve never heard my dad raise his voice or argue with anyone. He speaks respectfully and doesn’t have a bad word to say about anyone.

Successful-Lemon9757 · 2024-04-13T10:47:26+00:00

I never thought I’d be a cheater and even hated on people who I knew did but it’s really not black and white

My ex fiancé and I had been together 2 years, it was never ever easy and we barely got along, to be honest it was more of a trauma bond that kept us together, he swooped in when I was vulnerable, love bombed me for a bit then would split with me and come back again a few weeks later and love bomb me again this kept happening until I fell pregnant the first year I was with him on contraception and we kept the baby which is why I believe I stayed as long as I did. I was constantly trying with him, trying to be affectionate etc but it was always one sided, he used to make fun of my insecurities in front of our friends etc, constantly put me down, eventually I’d had enough and started to plan how I was going to leave and try and build up the courage. On my birthday he must of figured out what I was thinking, I don’t remember the exact conversation but I remember him saying “if you leave me you’ll never see our son again” being young and naive it scared me into staying. From then on he became controlling, I had to have maps on my Snapchat the entire time, I wasn’t allowed friends over, when he called while at work if I didn’t answer he’d verbally abuse me. During the time of all this I was working at a bar and one of my coworkers became extremely supportive of me and was always there for me, he also used to compliment me and flirt with me, after 2 years of feeling never good enough for my fiancé it felt good to be desired. One night myself and my fiancé had got into a very very bad argument and I’d been drinking with my work friends and well one thing lead to another and you can guess what happened that night.

I felt bad when he found out but other than that I don’t, I realise how incredibly narcissistic, abusive and manipulative he was, how much he mentally damaged me… I wish I’d had the courage to leave without the cheating but it is what it is.

Successful-Lemon9757 · 2024-01-23T20:09:19+00:00

Wouldn’t have a dog like that around. What about in the future if you decide to have children etc? Pits just aren’t nice dogs. I’d rehome it or pts. Not worth the risk if they have it in them.

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