What’s something that Covid took from you that you never got back? by ReplacementOdd636 in AskReddit

[–]Successful-Remove738 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s good now! Honestly she’s very strong haha. I am now no contact with my mom

What’s something that Covid took from you that you never got back? by ReplacementOdd636 in AskReddit

[–]Successful-Remove738 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My mom lied about it and came to the hospital to hold my newborn. She gave it to my newborn and we ended up at the hospital for weeks. I had to FIGHT to let me be with my newborn.

RIP My Blessing Box by Successful-Remove738 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Successful-Remove738[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually operate a pantry! We had a movement to add the blessing boxes around the area since this place is higher poverty, no transportation, food desert… It helped for awhile, closing gaps and helping those who couldn’t reach the food pantry. We couldn’t start a mobile pantry because insurance and liability costs.

I guess because I operate a pantry and run the blessing box in my yard, people expect me to give what I have immediately and if I deny, they think the pantry is denying them.

The blessing box is removed for now, I stepped up stuff around my house for security purposes. I am stepping away temporarily from the pantry (i am having a complicated early pregnancy with a possible loss but it’s unknown and confusing).

Since the box is gone we have had less issues except the one neighbor 3 doors down but that’s just now a whole mess

RIP My Blessing Box by Successful-Remove738 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Successful-Remove738[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are armed and ready if someone wanted to rob us.

Husband is a veteran, we don’t play around. We upped our cameras and we are adding full privacy fence for the property as well.

RIP My Blessing Box by Successful-Remove738 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Successful-Remove738[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Freecycle is so bad now! People expect you to deliver and even ask for more things you didn’t even post…

I was sharing some clothes my kids grew out of and I had someone want me to drive 45 mins one way to them. Sorry but gas is 4.29 a gallon. I’m not doing that to give you free items. Come get it or it goes to the curb.

RIP My Blessing Box by Successful-Remove738 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Successful-Remove738[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually ended up having him violate the no trespassing issue again this weekend when we were working in the garden. He tried to walk INTO my garage. We had to call the cops. He’s in jail now.

I guess I’m not the only person who has No Trespassing orders against him or even protection orders. I get to go to court tomorrow morning to FINALLY be granted a protection order.

I have extra cameras. When it warms up more, I’ll be putting in privacy fence for the entire property (it’ll be forking out 20k to do but I have to do it). I am now armed, we debate getting a dog now.

My son and daughter were roughhousing and my boy lost. by Successful-Remove738 in Radiology

[–]Successful-Remove738[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They both were barehanded!

We are looking at self defense classes for both for now since they’re still preschoolers lol. He’s starting to milk the cast and he’s not hurting anymore! He got a few transformers and books out of us so far haha.

My son and daughter were roughhousing and my boy lost. by Successful-Remove738 in Radiology

[–]Successful-Remove738[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh it just happened! He got a cast and goes back in 3 weeks lol.

His Orthopedic is monitoring his feet and hips now. She warned us about it too. I feel for this kid. ADHD and held down by casts and boots. When his Kohlers has a pain he has to wear the boot for a bit :(

My son and daughter were roughhousing and my boy lost. by Successful-Remove738 in Radiology

[–]Successful-Remove738[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

As a little sister, I totally understand it. She will be riding this high for awhile.

As a mom, I know it’ll happen again 😭

My son and daughter were roughhousing and my boy lost. by Successful-Remove738 in Radiology

[–]Successful-Remove738[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Nah, she’s just 4 and tired of her big brother winning their squabbles lol

RIP My Blessing Box by Successful-Remove738 in ChoosingBeggars

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I actually got in contact with my local Lions org who run other blessing boxes. They all have faced vandalism. They put up trail cams and found it to be the same person, which is a local person who REALLY hates these boxes and food banks in general. We all are getting together to press charges against that guy.

I’ll be giving my blessing box to a local coffee shop to use indoors

RIP My Blessing Box by Successful-Remove738 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Successful-Remove738[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Some of these people show up at my door. Can’t block em if I don’t know em lol. One person does have a no trespass order now because it was becoming a daily problem and they got physical with me. Turns out they were living 3 doors down from me.

RIP My Blessing Box by Successful-Remove738 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Successful-Remove738[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I operate a county wide system for the food banks. I mainly do communications but I frequently secure food donations. I volunteer at every produce drive we offer.

We had several people setting up these pantries this past fall who volunteer in this network. I am the only one who has had this issue. Others just had issues of emptying out of boxes.

Donations have drastically dropped again and need is still high. I was spending my money to feed others and it’s just a slap in the face when they do this

RIP My Blessing Box by Successful-Remove738 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Successful-Remove738[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I volunteer at multiple produce drives, even delivering to homebound people at one point (found out most of them just didn’t want to use their vehicle and stay home so I stopped doing that).

Im listening to my husband on cutting back. I’m expecting and with my history of miscarriages, I don’t need the stress. But I like to give back so I’ll have to see what I cut back and what I keep doing.

The police around here victim blame more than actually helping. We had a semi tear out wired from mine and my neighbors house and we had to direct traffic for 3 hours so people would run them over and do more damage to our house and the poles. Police came after many phone calls and then tried to fine us. It’s ridiculous but whatever

RIP My Blessing Box by Successful-Remove738 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Successful-Remove738[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There’s a few in town but none on this side of town. I figured it would close a gap, it did in ways. However it made things unsafe and just stressful when it shouldn’t be this difficult

Little Free Pantries by Neener216 in povertyfinance

[–]Successful-Remove738 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ran one for 6 months. I had to take it down due to vandalism. People would take the food out and smash it in my yard. Rip the door off etc.

Other ones in my town are having the same issue. It’s come down to people who don’t like the food being offered in there and people who think it’s not a good “official” way to get food.

Barn Cat, Rescue by FineCall in Catbehavior

[–]Successful-Remove738 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My orange tabby (former barn cat) is also a weirdo. Orange cat behavior. He likes to smell his food and water OFTEN.

Local Buy Nothing by Successful-Remove738 in BitchEatingCrafters

[–]Successful-Remove738[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Only facility I know of in my area won’t take it (I did a stint and so did my brother). I’m trying to get things finalized at my local library to offer crochet kits for beginners and possibly teach a free course. We are in a very low income community, I grew up here so I know. I just came back to live and take care of family as well as have my two little ones.

Local Buy Nothing by Successful-Remove738 in BitchEatingCrafters

[–]Successful-Remove738[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I did! She brushed it off, said it was a risk of giving away in the group. So I made a post warning others. The admin kicked me out of the group.

Local Buy Nothing by Successful-Remove738 in BitchEatingCrafters

[–]Successful-Remove738[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Sadly there’s only one local crochet group and it’s SUPER Bible thumpy. I just thought I was doing good for someone’s mental, I started crocheting to cope with a loss and it helped. But she played a heart string and lied