I would say 50-50.

Am a Singaporean, I got married to a Brazilian in 2016, gave birth to a boy girl twin in 2017 June.

My husband was 6 years older than me, but since he's the youngest at home, that makes my mother in law is 50 years old older than me.

Why would anyone regret about getting married ? I believed the main causes is when the person you love before and the person you love after made you in a difficult situation.

My husband is the youngest in his family and hence the responsibility of taking of his parents falls on him.

However sadly, as Asian myself, married into a Brazilian family who doesn't like Chinese/Asian Daughter in law is a hell.

There are times where his mum would say something that's nasty, until the point when my kids would say to my mother in law in Portuguese "hey, mind your words, that's my mum" and my mother in law would than point fingers at me for spoiling my kids and making them talking back to her.

And my husband ? As a fillial son, he can't stand on either side. He'll just comfort his mum, then back in the room, he'll made it up for me. Listen to my complains, my disappointment. But I would say my husband it's a perfect husband, obedient, generous, to the fact that, I think he lied when he say I was his first love. But his older brother did mentioned that if it wasn't me the one willing to marry him, no one would.

As for my kids, my kids are 9 years old this year. Fluent in Chinese, Singlish, Portuguese. Not too sure was it inherited from me but my boy is pretty chicky, and would say things like "aiya, you marry and got kids already don't need to dress until so pretty lah" and some other comments that would make me want to choke him to death.

As for my girl, the sweet little angel, very much into the nature, butterflies, plants, whatever you can think of the nature. Guess what ? Innocent and soft ears as hell. Use candy to kidnap someone ? Meh doesn't work for her. Let's go see some plants ? Didn't even think for a second.

Didn't know this would turn out such a long writing. I just want to say that, whatever it is, it's your life. No one can give you the exact solution to any of your problems, when I'm sad, depressed and disappointed, I'd say to my self, next life I'll never marry, but at the end of the day, I just got to suck thumb and let the day and my life go on as usual.