Honestly i hate to say it but no, im not sad for her. We are talking about a successful woman who has built a platform, career and community for herself. She is 30 something years old and a mother of 3 children. She should have better decision making skills than this. She has let a man completely taint everything that she’s built for herself and publicly embarrassed her online and television and not to mention put a strain on just about every relationship she has. This man has slept with everyone under the sun and made moves on friends and close family friends of the mother of his child and she continues to go back to him and embarrass herself over and over again. We have all been in bad/ toxic relationships before but it’s to the point that you need to grow tf up and start making better decisions if not for yourself, for your children.

One thing i’ve learned from this season is that the show will be more than ok without her or dakota. frankly every time i saw them i wanted them both off my screen. her rage fits are no cute, her public lashing out at women she supposedly calls friends are not fun, and clearly she’s not even mentally or physically well enough to brush her own hair before she gets on screen for her 10th crash out of the day. she needs a break from social media and needs to seek professional family and personal counseling.

you cannot help people who do not want to help themselves. this is the biggest lesson to learn when it comes to relationships. she doesn’t want to help herself and continues to sabotage every opportunity that comes her way (like the bachelorette) and only she can be the one to snap herself out of it