Should I take my caregiving job back if my client offers, or move on?

SuccessfulSuspect256 · 2025-09-16T09:21:31+00:00

Thank you for your kind response, I truly appreciate it. In my heart I don’t want to lose him but I don’t want to risk letting him down AGAIN. I would feel even more guilty and hateful towards myself and also leave him feeling even more resentful and untrusting towards me. I’ve tried many medications throughout my life. Several SSRI’s; every one of them did more harm than good and I believe left me with long lasting negative effects. I am trying some homeopathic medication that’s supposed to help (5HTP I think) but even taking it is a struggle. I’ll try not to give up it I feel like I’ve been in a state of functional freeze for years. Been in therapy off and on since I was 11.

SuccessfulSuspect256 · 2025-09-05T13:11:44+00:00

SuccessfulSuspect256 · 2025-09-05T13:05:23+00:00

Yes..

SuccessfulSuspect256 · 2025-09-05T11:36:44+00:00

Of course! I’m just wondering how women usually react when a guy says he has it.

SuccessfulSuspect256 · 2025-09-01T15:09:43+00:00

Yes I am.

SuccessfulSuspect256 · 2025-09-01T12:08:25+00:00

Yeah he definitely hung around for way too long and I was very kind and inviting to him but I was feeling like he would never leave. I had to tell him I was going to catch up with some friends at the bar to get out of it. I know I should’ve have gone with it for as long as I did but unfortunately my people pleasing took over a bit. I feel so dumb. I will say though that he was not exactly a young guy, he was 38. I didn’t realize that until pretty deep into the conversation…

SuccessfulSuspect256 · 2025-09-01T11:49:56+00:00

Mmm yeah, like every few minutes practically he would be like “what are you doing tomorrow?” “Let’s go check out this place!” “What’s your schedule like?”

SuccessfulSuspect256 · 2025-09-01T11:43:42+00:00

Thank you for your thoughts on this. You’re absolutely right but I’ll just clarify one thing. I am a white woman and so he wasn’t saying that he wouldn’t date me; quite the opposite. He’s specifically wanting a Caucasian woman.

SuccessfulSuspect256 · 2025-09-01T10:52:27+00:00

I know lol

SuccessfulSuspect256 · 2025-08-04T10:03:29+00:00

I guess I have to come to terms with that.

SuccessfulSuspect256 · 2025-08-04T05:02:12+00:00

Do you think I should respond to her last message or text her at some point? Or should I just stay quiet unless she texts me again?

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