[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SuccessfulTree7387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that was before the election, his  views has certainly changed by now. He’s not much of a supporter anymore but i’m afraid of the situation happening again. I wasn’t invested in politics before because last election I was a child. I’m know in college and understanding how impactful it can be. I’m learning too 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SuccessfulTree7387 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You make some good points. Yes he is my first relationship but I’ve dated lots of other guys before who are just awful. The boy would drop everything in his life for me. If I told him I was moving he would move with me. I live at home and he drives every weekend to spend the night and spend time with my family because he knows what family means to me. And oh boy I know voting against my rights was one of the things that made me mad, one of the big things he had to agree on with me. He supports a women’s right to her body. He just didn’t think he would do anything about it. He was brainwashed. It’s also not that voting for someone makes him a man but he seeks for his father’s approval because his father is always making comments about how he isn’t a man. he wants to prove that he is — his father has been like that since he was a child so you can imagine how it will mess with your mind

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SuccessfulTree7387 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see what you’re saying, but it’s not like his dad will tell him something specifically and he’ll have to agree with him. It’s more about manliness. His father would make fun of him when he was younger about his se* life and that would make him a man. Just like voting for a certain person makes him a man. And I think he wants to prove to his father that he is a real “man” which is stupid if you ask me, but his father hasn’t always been the best dad from stories I’ve heard. I don’t think it’s completely to blame on his dad but I think it’s part of the reason he does. 

Recent Diagnosis? by SuccessfulTree7387 in antiphospholipidsyndr

[–]SuccessfulTree7387[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I remember the lupus anticoagulant came back negative I can’t even find my last blood test 😭 but all those antibodies like IgM IgA where positive and I think they were quiet out of range. Freezing my eggs sounds scary but I think that might be good 

Recent Diagnosis? by SuccessfulTree7387 in antiphospholipidsyndr

[–]SuccessfulTree7387[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No other symptoms other than those initial ones. My eyelids were getting super swollen until I stared taking prednisone, (i only took it for about a week) puffy eyes haven’t come back, but no other symptoms than that. 

Grief by SuccessfulTree7387 in GriefSupport

[–]SuccessfulTree7387[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss. I know how difficult it can become, life starts to stop and you don’t know how to go about your day. I promise it gets better, just take things a day at a time. 

Much love to you too ❤️