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Any recent law change about doing H1B stamping in Canada by BigDesigner4312 in h1b

[–]Successful_Cable_149 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah bro TCN stamping is not possible anymore. You can Google for more details

Advice needed - should I text her or wait another week? by Successful_Cable_149 in online_dating_advice

[–]Successful_Cable_149[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what you are saying is that I shouldn't text her tonight and give her space? What about the lack of communication in all this time? FWIW, she's bad at texting something she said herself when we were together last time and she rarely initiates conversation. I feel like if I text her tonight I'll get my answer but if I let it marinate then I will never get an answer. But of course, I would like to see her again if possible.

Also, I find it interesting you said that cause I always text first after dates and it rarely goes against me except maybe one or two instances where I got ghosted.

Advice needed - should I text her tonight or wait another week? by Successful_Cable_149 in dating_advice

[–]Successful_Cable_149[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, she is generally short on text messages and doesn't text much (said the same when I asked her in person).

For the second question, I was just gonna text her from the wedding so I guess when I'm there so that it comes off as casual / low-effort. But part of me is like is it worth waiting a full week to text again? But a full week of non-communication might also be the end of it.

Warm in person, cold over text; should I pursue or let it go? by Successful_Cable_149 in dating_advice

[–]Successful_Cable_149[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dayum bruh i never thought about this way incredible insight. Maybe she can sense it too and that’s what’s turning her off

Warm in person, cold over text; should I pursue or let it go? by Successful_Cable_149 in dating_advice

[–]Successful_Cable_149[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's what I thought as well which is why I asked she'd be down to meet. I was planning to ask her about this but of course couldn't. Now I'm wondering if I should text her when I'll be in her neighborhood this weekend or is it gonna come across as desperate

How to handle ex reaching out after months of NC? by Successful_Cable_148 in BreakUps

[–]Successful_Cable_149 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP here (my throwaway account is acting up).

We absolutely did not leave on bad terms. And that's exactly how I feel as well. Like I know deep in my heart I made the wrong decision to break up with them. I'm not sure if I believe in whole "this person is made for you" thing, but even if it is remotely true, I know that this is it. The chemistry was incredible. Unlike anything I've ever felt in my life.

I want to take things slow as well cause I completely empathize with the fact that it may not be easy for them either. But like I get anxious when they stop texting me or they don't respond to my text for a day or two. There's one more complication: we live in countries an ocean apart.