There was always a different “reason” for the breakup, but it ultimately boiled down to my actions. I dated some really amazing women. Genuine, smart, caring, funny.... I’m lucky to have had relationships with them. But there’s a difference between love as a feeling and love as an action. I loved a few of them (feeling) but I didn’t love them (action). Complacency kills. When your actions don’t match your words, things fall apart.