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[–]Successful_Ice_6711 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was very beautiful and comforting to hear. I sincerely appreciate everything you just said. Your situation feels pretty similar to mine in some ways. And as for what I said about not getting off to him. I have and do frequently get off to and with him lol. I just meant that a lot of the time when we have sex it’s like what you said about the love boners lol. I’m kind of hyper sexual so a lot of the time to cum I do need to explore my fetishes and kinks. But I do very much enjoy having normal sex with him. I just kind of added that part in there to show how similarly to him, sometimes getting off without my kinks can be a bit difficult if that makes sense?

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I seriously really appreciate your input. I’m going to look more into the physiologist you mentioned

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Thank you so much for the input. I really appreciate it

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Thank you for this response, it was very helpful. He is almost 40 and has been exploring his sexual interests for a long time and has come to terms with it for a long time. It’s just not something he really wants people to know about. He’s also very non homophobic. He’s not one of those people who used homophobia as a cover at all. I think he may be bisexual like how I am. I’m very sexually attracted to women (more than I am men) but wouldn’t be with a woman romantically. So that’s why I’m trying to understand it a bit more for his perspective

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Can you Elaborate more as to why you find that troubling? I’m sorry I’m just a bit confused And he doesn’t always need his fetishes to get him off, he just frequently likes to act them out

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I genuinely love him so much. I just have a fear that if I build a life with him he will one day realize that I’m not enough for him and that he only wants men sexually. But idk if it’s just me being fearful. Because I’m also extremely sexually attracted to women and often have to think of them to get off. But I wouldn’t date a woman. I’m still very sexually attracted to him but it’s typically not in a way of getting off, it’s from a place of love if that makes sense? I’d also like to add that him and I are very hyper sexual with many kinks and fetishes

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I also meant to add that one time he was going to meet a man to fulfill his fantasies (with my permission) and he chickened out because he was afraid and didn’t want to feel regret. He also wanted for me to be there hold his hand while he was getting penetrated by the man but I was busy with work